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hereWeGoYo

35 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm southern but not conservative, career-driven but love being outdoors, and a homebody who is never home.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, traveling for work (a lot), grilling, learning to row (on fours and eights in the Harlem River), throwing parties on my rooftop, visiting family in VA and OR, eating as much good food as my body can stand, letting go of judgements while maintaining sarcasm, walking to work, biking to errands.

I guess I should also say here that work is a cornerstone of my life. I do business strategy to help companies start new businesses, and I have found a balance between making money and doing things that are good for the world (both are of extreme importance to me). Right now I am working to build a business incubator that will support businesses that create products and services for impoverished girls in East Africa. Before that, it was developing a rapid diagnostic for infectious disease in India. Before that, it was new digital products in beauty, celebrity, fashion and food for an Italian publisher. I say all of that about work because work impacts my life in a couple important ways: 1- it challenges me intellectually, which I cannot live without (and being challenged is something I want from a relationship); 2- it feeds a travel habit, which means I am often not home. Currently my most oft destinations are SF, London, East Africa (Kenya Uganda Rwanda), and sometimes PDX. This fall will bring some much-needed refuge in Virginia.

You might get more out of my Instagram account: @cartermillican
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Biggie Biggie Biggie
Sam Beam
Kanye
Lil' Wayne
Tribe
Motown
Beasties
banjos
mandolins
harmonicas
Salome
David Byrne
most any symphony
Mark Bittman
Bill Cunningham
KQED
Wait! Wait!
Terry Gross
Iris Apfel
Karel Martens
minimalism
graphic patterns
Edward Hopper
Fred Sandback
Sol LeWitt
Chris Johanson
Andre Leon Talley
Dia: Beacon
Delica
Burma Superstar
John Dory
Press Club
Chateau Marmont french toast
Le Chateaubriand
blue crabs
crab masala
softshell crab curry
Pimms cups
Campari and soda
good Grappa
the whole gamut of red wine
A Pattern Language
Lolita
Nicholson Baker
Richard Russo
Baudrillard
Nabokov
Vonnegut
Plath
Ellison
Sexton
Hughes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
tomatoes
good down bedding
fresh air (not the show, though I like that too)
gps
wood floors
Something good for my body: crew, yoga, running, horseback riding, biking...take your pick
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The next fifty years this earth will see. The environment is something I think about a lot, mostly because I like my life and I'm concerned that our collective choices will impact my day-to-day living seriously in ten years or so. That said, I'm not an activist. I just try to limit what I buy, limit what I use, limit what I waste.
You should message me if
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You're crazy smart, you seek out great food but don't post it on Instagram, good sex is a priority you're not willing to settle on, you're driven, and you think having a woman at your side who also craves all that is an asset.