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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36-53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 3
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity and it’s important
Has kid(s) and might want more
Has dogs
My self-summary
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*** I am taking a break from OkCupid for the moment. I may have a connection with someone. Ok, I definitely have a connection and I am taking some time to see where it goes. ***

I am a creative and passionate person. I recently moved to the Bay Area. I'm a focused guy, spending my days developing a book publishing startup in one of the top accelerators.

If we were together and I had one minute to make an impression And I was being reeeaaaallly honest with you, I would look you in the eyes, smile and say...

I don't Really do small talk well, so let's get to it.

It will probably never work out between us. Beyond the statics and the fact that you can tap or swipe me into your past...

You need to get away from me right now. I expect too much in a relationship. I don't want another new friend, a date or two or to hook up. I'm not looking to "get some" or for an eventual score or one night stand.

I want to find someone I can get to know in every way. To share the whole range of passions - simple and plutonic and all the rest - with every day and for the rest of my life. A thousand inside jokes and ten thousand sweet nothings that add up to something beyond special.

Please turn and run right now if you don't care about being your best physically and spiritually. I will push you to follow What is good and right in everything you do. I will expect you to patiently call me back to the truth when I go astray.

I will expect that we have a whole range of activities and experiences together and friends, work and a life outside of the two of us. Travel, volunteering, entertainment, sports, quiet times and enough rest to recharge and be able to give to each other and the world.

I will demand that we use our money, time and possessions wisely, because it is not ours but God's. We are only the stewards.

I will love, honor and respect you beyond all others except God but I will want nothing less from you. I will do all I can to provide a safe secure environment for you to be free to be yourself but you will not be free to give your affections to anyone else.

Get away from me now. This will probably never work out. :-)

[annnnnd scene]

Still around? Now then, what kind of coffee can I order you?

The above notwithstanding, I'm soft spoken, easy going, thoughtful and fun. That kind of fun like being tickled but right before it becomes completely annoying and painful. Yes, I'm almost painfully fun. That's what I'm saying. And I'm sticking to it. If you want fun to the point of (almost) pain. I'm your guy!

I have no problem making the first move, but you found this, read this far and you are interested, I would appreciate you letting me know. I can do a lot, but I can't read minds.

All the best in your search!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making the world a better place for authors and readers
Serving God
Riding my bicycle, scooter or motorcycle
Looking for YOU!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out
Putting others first
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kind & I kid. My smile.

Biggest misconception? I am NOT too good to be true! Don't believe it (<--- this is me kidding).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many...
In Bruge
The Princess Bride
Death at a a Funeral (the original one)
Lars and the Real Girl
Also, dark comedies, indie dramas, and yes even a rom com or two

Mad Men
Breaking Bad
How I met your mother

Magnus Opum - a Booktrope book. my new favorite
Grisham legal thrillers & Non-Fiction like Keller, Piper, Driscol, Gladwell, Pink

I like almost all of the musics. Except country. Or "serious" jazz. Or mariachi. Or something loud early in the morning. Or anything too often. #variety
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends / Community
The Beach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to change the world. Both my work ’world' and how to reach others for Christ.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no routine Friday night. Sometimes travel, eating with friends, relaxing, entertainment.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We'll have to talk in person.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a Christian who is kind, honest and compassionate. And fun!