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  • Ages 18-45
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Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm small and weird. can't stop tap tapping. would rather be outside than inside. i endeavor to watch and listen and absorb fiercely, and i try to keep my mouth shut at least as often as i open it.

i admire people who do difficult things with courage and respect. i am thrilled to be a part of mysterious adventures. i appreciate puzzling exceptions and the benefit of the doubt.

i'm most comfortable with folks who are thoughtful, resolute, and deadpan. i struggle to embody honest communication and compassionate confrontation.

i am crafty, dislocated, and determined
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
playing fast and loose with the blood-brain barrier. unbreaking implements. squinting over the tops of my goggles.

building what i can't afford with what i find in the garbage;
trying to write queerpositive antiracist science fiction; drawing tattoos of monks and owls.

working to understand and undermine the destructive potential of my privilege; being furiously unhappy with the masculinities peddled to me; inventing/sharing in new ones!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
disappearing from crowded rooms into nearby foliage. becoming peoples' children. troubleshooting beeps. extrasensory migraine auras.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
wait, where'd he go?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
ursula leguin, octavia butler, wilhelmina baird, nalo hopkinson, neal stephenson, nicola griffith, james baldwin, maxine hong kingston, william gibson, china mieville, bell hooks, ralph ellison

titles i'm reading/have read lately that i really enjoy: a world lit only by fire ok, this is some pompous-ass shit, but also i am a sucker for monkery! emma bull's bone dance! china mieville's king rat! recommend me sweet feminist sci-fi, pretty please!

terminator one. yi yi. krugovi. gwoemul.

fugazi, dog faced hermans, the ex, crass, slits, jorge cafrune, raincoats, group inerane, john chibadura, sygyt, delta 5, dan higgs/lungfish, wipers, grass widow. bert jansch, peter lang, old fahey. otis redding. whatever freddie mercury touches. secretly, crushing obscure metal.

fresh greens, fresh fish, garlic, ginger, avocado, ful, mint chocolate chip ice cream. bi bim bap (saying it, eating it). myriad soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
readin' and writin', cooking a small feast, rewriting the same three paragraphs thirty million times, mispronouncing yonge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm not lookin' for romance! i've made lovely friends here, and i'm hopeful it'll happen again.

also, i'm not sure bisexual means for me what okcupid thinks it does. gah, gender is tough.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you want to make video games together.
- you want to share stories/music/art/writings/recipes/evasive maneuvers
- you are less afraid than i am of discharging caps.
- you are prepared for the alien wizard invasion.
- you are the alien wizard invasion.