Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i'm small and weird. can't stop tap tapping. would rather be
inside. i endeavor to watch and
listen and absorb fiercely
, and i try to keep my mouth shut
as often as i open it.
i admire people who do difficult things
. i am thrilled to
be a part of mysterious adventures
appreciate puzzling exceptions
of the doubt
i'm most comfortable with folks who are thoughtful,
resolute, and deadpan
. i struggle to embody honest communication
i am crafty, dislocated, and determined
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
playing fast and loose with the blood-brain barrier
unbreaking implements. squinting over the tops of my goggles.
building what i can't afford with what i find in the garbage
trying to write queerpositive
antiracist science fiction
; drawing tattoos of monks and owls
working to understand and undermine the destructive potential of my
privilege; being furiously unhappy with the masculinities peddled
to me; inventing/sharing in new ones!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
disappearing from crowded rooms into nearby foliage. becoming
peoples' children. troubleshooting beeps. extrasensory migraine
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
, octavia butler
, wilhelmina baird
, neal stephenson
, nicola griffith
, maxine hong kingston
, china mieville
, bell hooks
, ralph ellison
titles i'm reading/have read lately that i really enjoy: a world lit
only by fire
ok, this is some pompous-ass shit, but also i am a
sucker for monkery! emma bull's bone dance
china mieville's king
! recommend me sweet feminist sci-fi, pretty please!
. yi yi
, dog faced
, jorge cafrune
, john chibadura
, delta 5
, dan higgs/lungfish
, grass widow
. bert jansch
, peter lang
, old fahey
. otis redding
touches. secretly, crushing obscure
fresh greens, fresh fish, garlic, ginger, avocado, ful
, mint chocolate chip ice cream.
bi bim bap
(saying it, eating it). myriad soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
readin' and writin', cooking a small feast, rewriting the same
three paragraphs thirty million times, mispronouncing yonge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i'm not lookin' for romance! i've made lovely friends here, and i'm
hopeful it'll happen again.
also, i'm not sure bisexual means for me what okcupid thinks it
does. gah, gender is tough.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you want to make video games together.
- you want to share stories/music/art/writings/recipes/evasive
- you are less afraid than i am of discharging caps.
- you are prepared for the alien wizard invasion.
- you are the alien wizard invasion.
Who are you looking for?
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