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heyblue

35 / F / straight / Single

Omaha, Nebraska

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am sugar, spice, and mosta the time nice.

My Self-Summary

good-natured gal from oklahoma with more smarts than i know what to do with, a reputation for speaking my mind, and a habit of wishful thinking.

What I’m doing with my life

settling down in omaha after ten years living in chicago... making the most of what i've got and hoping for a little something more. i balance my busy work in retail with quiet time spent crafting, getting out into nature, reading, doing puzzles, hanging out with friends. i am social, not solitary. i want a partner to go out with, (or stay in with!), someone to share a home with, make a life with.

I’m really good at

my job as a bookstore manager. actually the bookstore manages itself, i manage the people who work at the bookstore. i'm good at teaching people and taking care of people, helping them get what they want out of life. i'm also really good at scrabble.

The first things people usually notice about me

my eyes, which i'm told are sexy and intense. then my naturally curly hair. then my body, which is curvy and large. i think people also notice my self-confidence, my intelligence, as well as my sense of humor. all of that's real up front with me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

i read short stories, poetry, essays, memoirs, modern american literature (not contemporary, not classic); most recently i read joyce carol oates' wild nights! i like to study maps and blueprints. i read books on alternative health, midwifery, herbal medicine, eastern religion.

top five movies: eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, the science of sleep, wings of desire, harold and maude, brazil.

music: whisper folk, singer-songwriter, world music, jazz, classical. i have a masters degree in classical voice; this makes me especially bad at karaoke. i do love to go see bands play here in town. most recently: built to spill, bon iver, magnolia electric co, m ward.

food: coffee. i like coffee a lot. i am mostly vegetarian and a pretty decent cook. my favorite ethnic foods are mexican and ethiopian.

The six things I could never do without

hot coffee
trips to the ocean
intellectual stimulation
physical intimacy
a warm bath
sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to make things better, more efficient, more logical, organized. i am not as creative or "free thinking" as i'd like to be, though i am very open-minded -- some would say off the charts -- with some of my ideals and beliefs. i would like to get to a place eventually where i was living only to create, or to serve those who are creating...

On a typical Friday night I am

working. care to make me a better offer?

my ideal friday evening would be hosting a salon -- inviting friends, musicians, artists, writers over for dinner and collaboration, discussion, merrymaking... there's a scene in the movie "once" that illustrates it perfectly.

You should message me if

you're interested in something more than flirting and small talk. i feel like i do that all day, and here i am looking for something a little more substantive.

you are single. single single.

and available.