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heybluey

29 / F / straight / Single

Carmarthen, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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Your Notes

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I am pleasant, most of the time, and sometimes a bit odd..

My Self-Summary

hmmm....
i can't message on here so send me an alt contact. pref fb or similar. thanks :-)

What I’m doing with my life

looking after my little pocket of preciousness (aka the child, pumpkin, poodle, snookit etc..). painting. trying to start a bizzar esoteric one stop. writing really bad song lyrics. writing some quite good song lyrics. playing the same four songs on the guitar over and over. relaxing in the bath. drinking wine. dreaming. planning what to do next. casting spells nya ha ha ha...

I’m really good at

drinking rum. i used to be really really good at giving head but its been a while.

Editors

The first things people usually notice about me

you know, i really dont know. i shall ask a friend.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

call me an old romantic but i really liked the time travellers wife. reading trashy hornby, parsons, elton or pratchett (i take it back, of course pratchett is not trash, i join you all in your bowing down ceremonies, please forgive my slight.) i have just discovered coelho and now want to read every one of his millions of books. i enjoyed norweigan wood by kundera and supernature by lyall watson.. um..

other than whats listed above i have been recently been doing quite a bit of alternative learning so not much fiction really.

movies donny darko of course. amelie. rocky horror. pretty easy to please as long as it is not a no-brainer, no plot, action/slasher/doom mongering type of film.

music jeff buckely. van the man. the doors. jack johnson. damien rice. david bowie. led zep. foo fighters. cowboy junkies. frou frou. sunset rubdown. those modern guitary bands which i can never remember the names of umm the killers, arctic monkeys, kaiser chiefs etc. a nice bit of jazz. six trillion billion other bands that i would be forever writing about. stuff some of my friends call wierd.

does jack daniels count as a food? how can you pick a food?! all food rocks! if i had to eat one thing for the rest of my life maybe ho yu gui po (go to your chinese, it is yummy). or maybe mexican. or maybe a proper roast. or maybe italian. or maybe salmon in a cheese and leek sauce. or maybe pork and leek sausages. mmmmm. (disclaimer; i would like to point out at this point that i am not a gluton)

The six things I could never do without

my family and friends. my toothbrush. music. food. sad as it is my computer.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

why the world isnt a better place. why i had to meet the one man who made me laugh and gave me multiple orgasms when i was 'going through a bad patch'. the meaning of life. why it seems to mean so little to some people.

On a typical Friday night I am

sitting in with girlies drinkin wine, talking about chimney climbing hamsters and the meaning of life.

update: talking about silly men who you go out with for a couple of drinks, who then think that they have some sort of divine right over your life! what the hell is that all about?! anyway, i am pretty sure he would have failed the above test. next please..

update: talking about divine intervention v fate. talking about why men are like buses (no, not because they are filthy and slow, you know you wait for ages and ages and ages then three come at once.) talking about food. talking about red v white (wine). talking about the good old days. talking about making some new good old days. talking about our girly easter break (hooray!) talking about whether ONLY listening to radio one makes you a philistine. (erm... dur..)talking about whether listening to radio two makes you a boring old git (i like kerrang too you know!) talking about bourbon v vodka. talking about new marrieds v old marrieds v non marrieds. talking about socks. talking about red dwarf. cant remember what else we talked about, too much wine...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

private unless you ask nicely.

You should message me if

you want to.