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36 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:33am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
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Well hello, thanks for stopping by. I'm a photo-taking, record collecting, Film Forum haunting, live tweeting, animal adoring, incurably optimistic, Anglophilic, semi-aquatic Brooklyn gal. And before you make a witty comment about felines, my username has absolutely nothing to do with cats. If you know your rock and roll you'll get the reference.

Partial to classic film, quality music, art, sailing, kayaking, swimming, traveling, yoga, cooking, reading, writing. Farmers markets, flea markets, antique shops, record shops... hanging out in nature, talking to animals. Love to find the less traveled parts of the usual places. And I always do, go me.

I'm an incurable coffee snob. Otherwise not at all snobby.

And hell yeah, I'm vegan! Why wouldn't I be? I love this planet, I love animals, and as a nutritionist I know that I'm doing my body a massive favor. Being vegan simply means that my ethics and actions are aligned. So what if you're not vegan? You're like 99% of the world, and I dig my fellow humans. I don't rule people out if they're not just like me.

A few of my best memories: Hitchhiking around England, sleeping in a field on Beachy Head, Venice Biennale, summer of nocturnal photography in Paris, sailing in the Caribbean, playing with miniature deer on Big Pine Key, eating pasta in Positano, swimming with sea turtles in the Virgin Islands, and any moment in San Francisco or the East Bay.

Want to help me continue the adventure? Sure you do.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a nutritionist. OKC really needs a "healthcare" category in addition to medicine. Other sounds pretty confused!

In general, I spend a lot of time helping the world become a better place. And photographing. When I'm not doing good or creating something, I'm rocking out to 60s soul. All in all, making the most of every moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

karaoke contests

various comical accents


hula hooping

raising one eyebrow (not so much the other one)

keeping plants alive and well


trivia contests (minus the sports)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most likely that I'm about 97% gams.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classic film from Hollywood's (and beyond's) Golden age- some favorite genres/directors include Hitchcock, Kitchen Sink (british new wave,) screwball comedies, Film Noir, French New Wave, The Archers...

Books: I dig non-fiction, but also have a big soft spot for classic lit. Recent reads include: Agatha Christie's Autobiography, Pete Townshend's autobio, (Fieldings') Tom Jones, The Unnatural History of the Sea, Agent Zigzag, Double Cross, Twelve Years a Slave, Under the Banner of Heaven, Just Kids. Lately I'm hooked on WW2 history.

Music: I'm partial to the classic mod canon: The Small Faces, The Kinks, The Who, The Pretty Things, The Jam, Northern Soul, Garage, old blues. Also The Smiths, 90s Britpop & shoegaze (Ride, mainly) Led Zeppelin, Big Star, Bowie, Brian Jonestown Massacre...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. movies
2. library card
3. my favorite Podcasts
4. nature
5. killer music
6. my soaker tub - my prized possesion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nutrition research. Things I'm writing. Where to travel. The woeful state of the planet. The next Ride (band) shows in September.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeing a gig, or some other shenanigans. Or if it's been a tiring week, I may be live tweeting a movie. Like a party, but on the couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My telomeres are longer than yours.
You should message me if
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Be funny! Be kind. Be awesome. Just send the message already.

Disclaimer: like 99% of people over 30, I lied about my age to even things out. When the algorithm sees my real age, I only hear from octogenarians. I'm 5 years older than I stated here. But thanks to the fact that vegans age incredibly gracefully nobody knows anyway. (and my photos were all taken within weeks or months of your seeing them)