hfrank45
61 Hudson, NY
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My self-summary
Isn't there really only one way to date? You pick up the phone and you call the other person and you say: I saw your profile on OKC and I thought it would be fun to get to know each other. Would you like to go out?

Most of the time people can tell within 20 to 30 minutes if there is any attraction, even sooner.

Let's face it, you can text for hours, talk on the phone for weeks or email forever and never end up with the same results as spending time together. Reading all the profiles, consulting the stars and answering endless questions might be amusing in a reality TV sorta way, but I doubt anybody ever made a real connection that way.

I am of the opinion two people have to date and they have to spend significant time together if they want a good long-term relationship. And I think that the dating is a dance which begins without touch; if the connection is right the dance gradually evolves into an embrace. I wax poetic. Or maybe I'm exposing my romantic side?

Would you like to dance?
What I’m doing with my life
Exploring, Realizing my dreams, Looking for you.
I’m really good at
Thinking sideways and around corners.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair, my height, and a certain je n'est sais quoi.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Film: The Great Beauty. Fellini films. Anything intelligent or briilant.
TV: Eclectic tastes but not sitcoms. Music: American Roots. Especially jam band, jazz, blues.
The six things I could never do without
the dawn
dreams
my family and children
serving a purpose greater than my own
a great red
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to spend a lot less time thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Winding down. Heading out of town. Walking to a jazz club. Turning up the music. And sometimes all at once.....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a romantic soul.
You should message me if
1. We can learn from each other.
2. You are not afraid of falling in love.
3. You don't have an 'ex' hanging around.
4. The best is yet to come.
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