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hheeaaattthher

30 Denver, CO Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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ISTJ seeking ENFP.

Basically, I want to be with someone who is the complete opposite of me personality-wise but with similar interests and hobbies so that we're still compatible.

BTW, you don't have to read all of this, but the information's here if you want it. Take it or leave it :)

I'm very analytical, logical, organized, etc. My partner need not be, but consider this fair warning that I am. I have a bachelor's degree in math, and I've been working at an engineering firm named Harris Group for over seven years now.

Despite being meticulous and detail-oriented to a fault, I also happen to be a pretty laid back and easy-going person. This sounds like a contradiction, but it's not. It's more of a hierarchy. Accommodating the person I'm with is more important to me than catering to my own idiosyncrasies. I tend to avoid confrontation and think that most misunderstandings could be avoided if everyone would follow the old adage of learning how to put themselves in another person's shoes.

Needless to say, I enjoy having interesting, philosophical conversations with people who do and don't share my beliefs. I think everyone should try to be open-minded, but I also think that not believing in any absolutes is completely ridiculous (although unfortunately very common in our culture).

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"..you cannot go on 'explaining away' forever: you will find that you have explained explanation itself away. You cannot go on 'seeing through' things forever. The whole point of seeing through something is to see something through it. It is good that the window should be transparent, because the street or garden beyond it is opaque. How if you saw through the garden too? . . . a wholly transparent world is an invisible world. To 'see through' all things is the same as not to see." -C.S. Lewis
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Sometimes I think atheists can be just as close-minded as Christians. Sometimes. Although I'm agnostic, so I totally understand both sides and have no qualms with either.

I have a talent for dissecting and empathizing with the opsing parties of polarizing issues. "Come together, right now, over me."

I love music!!! It's a huge part of who I am. I'm not picky about which type (alternative rock, hip-hop, bluegrass, punk, and reggaetón are some of my favorites), but I can't understand people who just don't like music at all.

I love reading. It's all about the classics for me: J.D. Salinger, Ayn Rand, Edgar Allan Poe, Kurt Vonnegut, and even a little Thomas Hardy when I'm in the mood for it. Although, I have found some good modern stuff along the way too, like the Harry Potter series and anything by David Sedaris. I would absolutely LOVE to meet someone with a really sexy voice who wants to read out loud to me. I like boys who sound like stoners and girls with raspy/weird voices like Zooey Deschanel or Starlee Kine from This American Life.

I'm into the carefree, artsy, hippie type girls. Bubbly, maybe even a little bit innocent. Smart in a deep, perceptive, and mature kind of way. Like wise, rather than pretentious.

Lastly, I'm a Libertarian. I realize that there are all types of scales associated with this term (I'm not a complete anarchist, for instance), but I would prefer to be with someone at least partially on the Libertarian grid. It just explains a lot about the type of person I am (and a little about why I love the show South Park). It's simple, really. I believe everyone should be able to do anything they want as long as it doesn't affect anyone else's freedom to do the same. Period.

I love freedom.

Politics aren't everything though and life is full of gray areas. Let's be cordial.

So that’s about it. I'm Heather. I love music, my family (I have three little sisters who mean the world to me), reading and writing, graffiti, NPR, optical art, whiskey, bowling, architecture, traveling, hacky-sack, billiards, mythology, cuddling, and a bunch of other cool shit.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being awesome.
I’m really good at
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pool, bowling, ping-pong, solving mathematical equations, realizing that I'm a tiny cog in a big machine, grand romantic gestures, driving a standard transmission (for a girl anyway :P), being sarcastic, creating graffiti art, and in the words of Bradley Nowell, I can play the guitar like a mutha fuckin riot.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my perfect (albeit orthodontically-corrected) teeth and that I look really young for my age. Also, if I'm wearing my blue colored contacts, then it's my blue colored contacts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My top five favorite books:
1. The Book of Job by Moses
2. The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger
3. The Mutt: How to Skateboard and Not Kill Yourself by Rodney Mullen
4. Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris
5. No One Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July

movies:
1. Pride & Prejudice
2. American History X
3. Across the Universe
4. Mean Girls
5. Drop Dead Gorgeous

bands/artists:
1. The Beatles
2. Alkaline Trio
3. Blink-182
4. Ingrid Michaelson
5. The Books

shows:
1. LOST
2. South Park
3. The OC
4. Weeds
5. Firefly

foods:
1. Pizza (especially with pepperoni and black olives)
2. Alfredo pasta with shrimp or shrimp scampi
3. Sushi (especially unagi)
4. Pad thai
5. Any good ol' fashioned bacon cheeseburger (sorry Jews)

but I'll try anything ... and that goes for any of these categories.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family
2. Music
3. Books/really just words in general
4. Purpose
5. Creativity
6. Travel
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
song lyrics.
Harry Potter.
formal logic.
what city to visit next.
upcoming concerts.
time travel.
time in general.
my own mortality.
Snapple facts.
your mom.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hopefully at a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I tear up to rap songs.

I'm a felon with a credit score of 770. It was for selling weed when I was 19 (the felony...not the credit score).
You should message me if
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you're laid back, intelligent, artsy, free-spirited, and not self-righteous, stuck up, or uptight.

you have curly hair. Pretty much my favorite thing ever. And/or messy, wild hair.

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