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38 M Bend, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:15am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
I love reading fiction (usually quality lit but occasionally cheesy genre fiction if it comes recommended from one of my of best friends) and The New Yorker, trail running, backpacking, cross country skiing, cooking for friends, getting out on the town, such as it is, and the odd game night.

My skills: planning backpacking trips, purchasing snacks for roadtrips to random small towns, making up games that work well with just two or three people, picking and executing the best version of a recipe on Epicurious, and diving deep on questions of life, politics, and sports (which is really just a giant commercialized metaphor for life).

I'd like to meet someone who shares some of these interests, who wants to explore, play, connect, and build a shared life.
What I’m doing with my life
Helping revitalize a downtown, spending time with friends, plannning summer backpacking trips.
I’m really good at
Planning trips, meals, outings, and explorations. Discussing a wide range of subjects. (NPR, NYT, and the New Yorker give me conversational breadth if not depth.)
The first things people usually notice about me
When I get excited, I talk a little loudly without realizing it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Middlemarch, Belle Canto, Prayer for Owen Meany, To the Lighthouse, Brothers Karamozov

Movies: Wes Anderson esp Rushmore, Fantastic Mr. Fox, and Moonrise Kingdom; Cohen Brothers esp Raising Arizona, Intolerable Cruelty, Oh Brother Where Art Though, No Country for Old Men... Others--Election, True Romance, Wedding Crashers, The Fugitive; Daniel Craig 007s.

Music: Radiohead, Spoon, Cake, Fun, The Killers, Lyle Lovette, Johnny Cash.

Food: Lobster rolls! They will be served at my memorial service.
The six things I could never do without
Minimalist running shoes
Nook e-reader (the ultralight way to read Dostyevsky while backpacking)
Metal edged touring skis
Soft mattress (I'm a side sleeper)
Beauty (natural and humanly created)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Optimizing backpacking iteneries for beauty, solitude, challenge, and relaxation.

The challenges posed by Main Streets too narrow for angled parking.
On a typical Friday night I am
West coast swing dancing, sipping a local brew (stouts and porters on short days, pilsners in the summer, and amber on the equinoxes), night cross country skiing, watching a live baseball game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I actually do like Garrison Keillor.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 29–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are looking for someone to accompany on you on adventures, bring fun to everyday life, and build a shared life.