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35 M Syracuse, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 25
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
The few things I want to say before anything else.. and this is just the ideal part.. not necessarily the right now part.. I do realize that patience is important.. and while I can jump into things quickly.. I am trying to take my time and do things right this time.

It would be nice to meet someone who also can contribute more to the relationship than simply being there.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, and trying to always make the best of things. I just got a great new IT Job working for one of the largest companies in the World doing Internet/Telecommunications Tech Support. Was thrilled about that.

I do love traveling/vacations.. been to Cancun twice, Maui once, Vegas, Disneyworld.. lotsa fun stuff. I go to Water Safari/the Adirondacks every year, as well as Fairhaven.. I love lake Ontario.

I always try to live in the moment.. but aspire to improve the quality of life.

Right now I am all about the future. It's all I've been able to think about lately. I want to sell my house, get out of the city and possibly buy a nice little house in the suburbs. I aspire to live the American dream.. and I'm on my way.
I’m really good at
Electronics, home theater, computers, anything with buttons. People.. negotiating. sales/profit/closing the deal, vacations, judging people prematurely, surviving. But most importantly, I am great at not losing perspective.

In relationships I have the ability to make someone feel loved and safe, secure. I don't really go out and do all the assh*le things that some guys do. I'm really into family stuff and I am a very loyal, and faithful person.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am really polite, easy going, have above average intelligence, I am sharp.. have to be to do what I do for a living. I am fun to be around. Most people comment on my ability to raise kids on my own, and see that I am strong for being so independent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV Shows- Supernatural, The Bates Motel (I f*cking love), The Walking Dead, Scandal, Tyrant, Game of Thrones, American Horror Story, Breaking Bad..Criminal Minds, Vampire Diaries, True Blood, Big Bang Theory, The Following, Once Upon a Time, Southpark, Heroes, Smallville, Paranormal State, The Dead Files, Ghost Hunters, I love Supernatural/Horror/Sci Fi Stuff.
Movies- All the Batman/Superman stuff.. love Comic Movies, Horror Movies, Scifi, Drama, Thriller, Comedy, all types really... but particularly.. Purple Rain, Lost Highway, Superbad, Harry Potter, Twilight, American History X, Kick Ass, Scott Pilgrim VS the World, Go, 8 mile, Dogma, Jay and Silent Bob/and the Kevin Smith Movies, Fightclub, Fright Night, The Lost Boys, Daybreakers . etc.

Music- Prince, Falloutboy, Hollywood Undead, 30 Seconds to Mars, Nine Inch Nails, Marilyn Manson, 12 Rounds, Jane Jensen, The Used, Monster Magnet, too many to mention really.

Food- I'm not a great cook. But I hope I meet someone who is, lol.
The six things I could never do without
1. My Kids
2. My Job
3. My Home Theater System/TV/Stereo
4. My Nikon DSLR
5. Monster Dranks <-- love em
6. Naptime =)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future. Money. What's for dinner. Vacations. My camera & wanting to use it. If I'm ever actually going to meet someone decent. Halo. What's on TV. What is there to do. Life, the Universe, and Everything.. 42.. Etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing, watching a Movie... ok I admit it, I have close to no social life.. but that is by choice. I used to have busy weekends.. friends.. girls.. fun.. all the time.. but I gave all that up. I am so sick of that type of lifestyle. I want something real.

I am completely content just about anywhere and doing anything as long as there aren't any annoying people around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My morals & values make it difficult for me to meet someone in this day and age.. I'm not uptight.. but for some reason trying to find someone to be in a relationship whom I can trust has proved to be quite challenging. I just want to meet someone decent..nice.. trustworthy.. Not someone who always wants to party/get high all the time. I already bought a girl a ring once.. that didn't go so well in the end.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...if any of this sounds good..

I'm not into head games, random hookups, crack whores, or such nonsensical things.