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40 Albuquerque, NM Man


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  • Ages 35–48
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Last Online
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Native American
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I am definitely a big picture kind of person. Especially when I'm on a roll with a project. That sometimes makes it look like I'm in my own little world, but I'm here. I'll snap out of it as soon as I ... do this one thing...

I have been divorced for several years now. I have three kids ranging in ages from 19 to 12. I love them and they keep me sane, at least on the weekends when they are with me. I have a strict policy of not introducing my kids to whomever I am dating until the time is right, and that is usually a while and in a neutral location. It just makes sense to me.

I prefer to follow current events and politics over following professional sports. I would rather play sports than watch.
What I’m doing with my life
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Contemplating a Master's Degree.

On the more mundane side I spend my days in front of a computer putting together textbooks at a publishing company. It is worthwhile work, we make textbooks for the eldercare industry. It pays the bills, and it's really a great place to work. It must be a great place to work, I've been there nearly 16 years or...maybe it's my presence that makes it great?

On the personal side I am working on being in the moment. Narrowing my priorities, trying not to over-extend myself.

Trying to fit more cycling into my life along with getting back on the skateboard.

Update Nov, 2014: I now have chickens in my backyard. It was an impulsive decision, but I'm good with it.
I’m really good at
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I am good at keeping my word.

I really enjoy working with my hands making things or fixing things.

Sort of following a recipe. The results are almost always good.

Taking on new ideas.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have absolutely no idea. I am told that I am intimidating at first. I suppose that is because of my dry sense of humor and shaved head?
Actually the more I think about it, it's probably my 10 pound miniature rat terrier. I often have to say "My eyes are up here!" He is easier on the eyes than I am, so I understand.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like biographies, textbooks, mostly non-fiction. Of course all the prerequisites from youth: LOTR, Dune... so on and so forth. Recently read Descartes Bones, that was interesting. I read Cat's Cradle by Vonnegut, after enjoying Slaughterhouse 5. Kornwolf by Tristan Egolf was great. I may have been a resident of Macondo Estates in a past life. Now, I'm reading the Hunger Games series, so that the daughter and I have something else to talk about.

I'm open to just about any movie. It's terrible because I tend to become invested in a movie within the first 10 minutes, and I have to see it through. Because of that I have watched many terrible movies, and have no regrets. It's the commitophile in me. With that said, Italian Neo-Realism is where it's at. The Bicycle Thief, Nights of Cabria, and Vidas Seccas are at the top of my list.

With netflix it's great to be able to watch a whole series without missing a show. Yup, I tend to binge-watch a series that I like. I recently watched Shameless(UK), and that was fantastic. I prefer sci-fi, but will enjoy anything that is thought provoking. I love a good documentary.

I'll be honest and say my music tastes have stagnated. I don't have much new music in my life anymore. I do tend towards more punk and classic rock. I am also fond of bluegrass and some country. I generally avoid the over-marketed flavor-of-the-day type stuff. Having said that, I would like more music in my life. Send me a suggestion, and I'll give it a listen.

And here is what my iPod says: the transplants, tim armstrong, sublime, the beatles, the doors, social distortion, red hot chili peppers, this listing of shit is boring, offspring, nirvana, no cash, minor threat, leftover crack, janis joplin, green day, flogging molly, eagles, dropkick murphys, the distillers, cypress hill, aggrolites and so on and so forth.

Food? I'm open to anything. I will say I am craving some cafeteria food right now. Yes, that is odd, but I have fond childhood memories associated with BIA(Bureau of Indian Affairs) cafeteria food.

Local breweries trounce anything from Budweiser and their ilk. Marble Red is like the nectar of the gods, no it is the nectar for the gods. A sandwich from Relish is preferred over some chain fast-food joint.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, tomorrow, shoes(I have sensitive feet), inspiration, seasons, and spare moments.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The hamster wheel and why we are on it. Looking forward to getting off the hamster wheel and start doing art full time.

Whether ideals truly exist. I mean that nothing is perfect. Everything is flawed, and that makes it beautiful. Some things from a distance look perfect, but on closer inspection it appears to have been oversold. I can live with imperfection.

Visiting far flung places and integrating into new societies.

How things have evolved to become what they are. I mean things, like keyboards, the computer mouse, cups, spoons, etc.. Basically I wonder about all the things we take for granted, and that once upon a time it was a huge breakthrough for someone.

Possibly taking up throwing clay. I know I would enjoy it, and be really good at it. Possibly a second degree in something like Anthropology?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It's kidtime for me on the weekends so usually I'm cooking dinner and unwinding from the week. Then the weekend is usually filled with kid activities.

Update- I am finding more free time on the weekends. As the little ones get older they are more often having plans of their own. It's a little disheartening, but I understand. They need to start sprouting their little wings. All that is to say, my weekends are never set in stone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a weak swimmer.
You should message me if
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You want a partner in crime.

You want to try to get me to like stouts or other non-hoppy beverages(that's a big challenge, I'm not sure you are up for it).

You have something new to introduce me to.