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44 Santa Rosa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:19pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm super cool, nerdy, sarcastic. Looking for a super cool, nerdy, ______ woman, definitely for friendship and maybe more.

I'm a bit of a dichotomy:

#1 I'm a big time nerd for comic books, movies, records, graphic design, art, comedy, kitsch, Star Wars, and more. I'm attracted to nerdery. I like to talk to people of subjects they are passionate about, whether I'm passionate about it or not. Do I have to go to SF or Oakland to find nerdy girls?

#2 I like to exercise. No, not on a machine on a room. I like to hike and bike, I play disc golf, I grew up playing soccer and have played some pick-up games with friends over the last several years. I'm not "athletic and toned." I fluctuate between "about average" and "a few extra pounds." It would be great to find someone to share in these kinds of activities.

I'm not sure exactly who I'm looking for--there's usually some connection you can't sense online--but I'd love to find a woman with common interests.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a self-employed graphic designer working out of my home, but I make plenty of time to get outside. I do a lot of hiking, bicycle riding and playing disc golf. I love last-minute road trips and adventures, near and far, urban as well as rural. I also like eating food and taking in a film from time to time, sometimes simultaneously. I love my garden.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Organizing information, drawing, pinball, spontaneity.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Sometimes my sarcasm. My green eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Phillip K. Dick, John Steinbeck, John Irving, David Sedaris, Brian K. Vaughan, Margaret Atwood.
Movies: Apocalypse Now, Shawshank Redemption, Double Indemnity, Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, Brazil, Fargo, There Will Be Blood, The Empire Strikes Back, True Romance, film noir. Whew! What a list. I'm a huge fan of comedies, too.
Music: Talking Heads, Built to Spill, Bonnie Prince Billy, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest, Pavement, Yo La Tengo.
Shows: Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, Get A Life, Trailer Park Boys, The Wire, Mr. Show, That Mitchell & Webb Look.
Food: I like making my own food at home, but when eating out, I like Thai, Italian, Mexican, Puerto Rican, etc. I'm not hard to please.
Podcasts (I'm on the computer all day): WTF, You Made It Weird, Smartest Man In the World, Dana Gould Hour, Doug Loves Movies, 40 Year Old Boy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, music, mountains, trees, friends, funny.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Recently, backpacking the Pacific Crest Trail. Also, farming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making the rounds with my entourage to all the hippest clubs in town.
That or eating the special at Las Palmas and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't have all the answers.
You should message me if
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you feel the inclination. Let's meet for tea/coffee and see. I'd expect there to be some semblance of compatibility though. I don't think I'd be compatible with a religious or conservative person.