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26 F Carbondale, IL

My Details

Last Online
Nov 11, 2013
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm not available for dating, but I'm always open to make new friends.
human being, not human doing.

living life in a question, not in an answer.

I am difficult to summarize. Myers-Briggs doesn't work on me. A lot of people describe me as intense. I am certainly passionate and rather honest in my views. I say what I mean and expect others to as well. My best friend often tells me I have a "talent for emotion."

queer-identified. Finding myself mostly attracted to cis- or transwomen or genderqueer people at this point.

Also, when I say I'm a night owl, I'm not joking. When I'm without a structured schedule, I revert to a pattern of going to sleep in the morning. I've been like this most of my life. Can make operating in the real world challenging. haha
What I’m doing with my life
I just moved to Carbondale from Austin, TX, and before that, NYC. I lived here before a few years ago with my sister, and it's good to be back! I just graduated with my Master's degree and found some work here.
I’m really good at
Making horrible puns- Punishment.
Being a Mature and Well-Behaved Young Lady :P
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm more interested in hearing about what you first noticed about me than my own biased assumption.

I hear all sorts of things- that I look serious, that I'm short, that I looked like a librarian because of my glasses, that they liked my lipstick or something else I was wearing...the list goes on...

A well-meaning person recently informed me that people have expressed "concern" about my weight, but I can assure you that I am naturally quite thin.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Mah Favrit Berks: Oryx and Crake, East of Eden, The Fault in Our Stars, 100 Years of Solitude, The Little Prince, anything on sexuality and gender

Movies: Everything is Illuminated, Brick, Wayne's World

Shitbox: Firefly, United States of Tara, MSCL

Music: Deftones, Hanson (yes, for real!) , Beirut, Imogen Heap, Regina Spektor, The Honey Trees, Incubus, M83, Tori Amos

NOMS: basil and cilantro. teeeaaaa. copious amts of garlic

Other: Nerdy stuff, Cheesy stuff, trendy stuff. A mixture of things. Andrea Gibson.

Fun fact: The two movies I cannot watch are A Clockwork Orange and Jurassic Park. The velicoraptors are always hiding around all the corners, waiting to eat me!! And why I can't watch ACO is a longer story..
The six things I could never do without
Slingshot planner
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why everything is backwards. (i.e. the gov't showing remorse when we get bombed, but then turning around and carelessly sicking drones on other countries. fake food being more accessible than real food. people in privileged populations vehemently denying obvious problems even when faced with logic, research, and stories of other peoples' experiences).

the things I love to do, the places I love to visit, and the people I love to see
On a typical Friday night I am
Recharging or raging
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My nails and the skin around them usually look like shit. I've had people try to get me to fix it, which is cute, but it's a lifelong habit that is probably not going away soon. Certainly not for lack of trying.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
you want to make a new friend! Especially if you like to travel.