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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 11
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Mutt (Hong Kong, Taiwan, Japan) born and raised in the east [part of the experience included attending a British all male boarding school - and yea this part tend to make a lot of gay friends curious/jealous ;)] and currently living in the west.

Feel extremely blessed that I get to live on the opposite side of the globe which helped me gain a broader perspective and appreciate diversity a lot more.

On here to make new friends, wine buddies, and maybe someone to enjoy a good meal with. Not rushing, but I do feel like I'm ready for the next chapter of my life and build a nest with someone :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently climbing the corporate ladder in Finance/IT. I'm fairly decent at it but I think I want to eventually get out of the corporate world and be more involved in creative stuff like stage design (oddly specific I know!)

When I'm not working, I enjoy spending time with my closest friends -- sharing a good meal, a few good laughs, and traveling.

Eventually I want to visit all 7 continents. For me, it's more important to acquire experience than things.

It would be nice if I can find someone that would be excited and serious about visiting these places together:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Decent baker and champion napper :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I think OKCupid should provide books/movies/music recommendations (particularly books) based on what people put in here. I'm always looking for a good read!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - Quality time with friends & family
2 - Traveling
3 - Beaches/pools (if you haven't already gathered that from my pics :)
4 - A nice kitchen
5 - TEDTalks
6 - naps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to survive a plane crash or a ship wreck.....or where my next travel (domestic / overseas) will be [They were not related thoughts in my head, until I typed them out...]
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually travelling out of town to visit friends family or pushing my group of friends to try new things.

Otherwise, I'm usually testing/cooking recipes or trying out new restaurants with friends. I enjoy having friends over and we would just eat, drink and occasionally make it a games night (Pictionary is my fav! And yea don't draw me an igloo, I will call it an Eskimonian hut....)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a soft spot for Stardust....
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