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34 Sterling Heights, MI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Nov 28
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English, C++ (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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NSFW. Ever.

Hi. I'm Brad. I'm an ENTJ Personality Type.
I assume this is where I am supposed to write some stuff cleverly designed to woo a reader into showing how awesome, complex, mysterious, fun, strong and caring I can be. "Make the reader want to love and screw me in under 60 words" seems to be the name of the game here.

Well, I think for this v4 re-write I will keep it simple. I've been in Michigan for about three years now. I've gone from a confident, cocky 30 something and turned into a bit more of a laid back guy that really just wants to have fun.

The truth is... I'm still figuring a lot of things out. I've learned that life is imperfect, messy, sad and gut wrenching. I see people all around me doing amazing things but I honestly feel left out of so much of what's going on in the world that it burns on the inside. I'm ready to try and do so many different things that I'm reaching out. Please, share what you love with me. I don't bite.
What I’m doing with my life
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I had such a compelling opportunity in Michigan that I left graduate school in Colorado/New Mexico and started a job that I absolutely love. I travel all over the country working with a huge variety of people and really enjoy the adventures I get to go on with the job.

When I am not on the road, I find that I spend a lot of time 'sharpening the saw' and enjoying myself. I just bought a home and spend a lot of time creating my dream with flooring and cabinetry. Let me assure you: I'm not remotely handy but having boys imagine me as a buff, sweaty construction type does wonders for dating.

I really enjoy the Red Wings and exploring all of Detroits amazing dining options. I want to learn to skate on ice. (I'm from the southwest so I have to Clarify the 'on ice' part. Don't judge or I will choke you with green chili.)

I want someone who I can explore with who would be willing to introduce me to a lot of new things in life. Would you mind sharing the things you like to do with me? I'll try anything once. Except girls. Nope. No hooha for Brad Lee. No sir.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I keep friends in my circle for life. I'm great at following up and seeing how people are doing. I generally value others as much as I do myself. I'll try anything once.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm fun and positive. I like new experiences. I want to live and enjoy myself as much as possible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Non-Fiction rules my world. I think the world is such an amazing place as it is I don't usually read fiction. Recent reads include 'Empire Express: The Story of the Trans-continental Railroad', 'Not Taco Bell Material', 'The Game' and 'The complete idiots guide to Statistics'.

Movies: Something About Mary, American beauty, American Pie.

Shows: I really like Shameless, Weeds, Nurse Jackie, Game of Thrones (SILENCE IMP!) and just about anything else on Showtime or HBO. I don't have cable yet manage to see all these shows. Hmmm....

Food: Somewhat of a foodie. I'm big on Asian and Mexican. I don't like German (too fatty) or Greek (wayyy too sweet). I try not to eat at chain restaurants or Restaurants that have the obnoxious
>(=)> Jesus fish in the logo.

Music: Music hurts. I can handle it for 20 or 30 minutes but after awhile it just starts to hurt my ears and I get sick. I think this is why I don't like bars or loud social events. I can handle up to about 10 people or so, then I get overwhelmed.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Every guy I meet is like "Cell Phone, Car, Bed, Air Blah blah blah"

How about:
Adventure and something to look forward to in life
Airplanes (thanks for making the plains states easier to cross)
Gay Men (In all your vapid and misbehaving glory)
Wit - I love a good smartass.
Humor - Because being boring sucks
The Truth - In all its forms. Lies suck.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Unicorns. Frequent Flyer miles. How much Comcast sucks. What I would do if an X-Men had a thing for me. How awesome Canada is. How much money I could save if I took some cooking classes. Just how terrible the internet has become for a surfer. How happy I could be with a strong man in my life. My health.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually flying home from an exotic destination catching up on my shows on an Ipad or a Book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a small, barely noticeable birthmark on my butt.
You should message me if
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You have something interesting to say that will grab my attention. Married men or men interested in quick hit sex should keep looking.