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47 F Pensacola, FL

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 27
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Wow! I'm back! Tried to date a guy not from the cyber world & it didn't work either!
Can I please find a guy who can keep up with me?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
trying to stay semi-sane and laugh at it all. Doing my best to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable :o)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the (sometimes sarcastic) positive side to life ! My level of optimism will make you puke! And I frequently travel with rainbow squirrels, unicorns & small furry animals. 🐺

I'm good at getting people to introduce me to their skeletons. Then I get out mine & we have a group dance lesson!

I excel at communicating in metaphor (as if above didn't make that obvious).

"My purpose in life is to shine a light on your dark corners. It's up to you do dance (or wrestle) with the shadows that are created."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My energy (it's been called infectious). My smile, my hair, my brain and its ability to manipulate the English language.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that nurtures your soul, your brain or your body. Or helps me survive on the planet. That entails a LOT of comic relief (George Carlin was a god in human form!).

Music: anything pretty much if it's lyrical (rap is not) or has a good dance beat. In another lifetime I would have been a song writer!! And I love the ADHD aspect of satellite radio, Pandora, cable music and Spotify radio! I frequently have 3 going at once.
I've recently taken a liking to the blues. I love to sing out loud to really goofy songs! I like to beat friends playing Song Pop!

Books - I don't do books so much anymore. Blogs, forums, news websites, people.... the knowledge-junkie in me would rather get that satisfaction from other sources than from a book although I always have 3 going. But.. Give me a synopsis or the Cliff's Notes version - I'm all about learning in the most efficient manner. I have shelves of books - mostly Psychology and a lot of true crime and serial killer stuff (I've had dates ask if this should worry them - LOL).
I haven't read fiction in a very long time (my life is better than any fiction).

Movies: I enjoy action movies (Jason Statham is yummy), comedies & horrors (a good slasher flick can be funnier than a comedy!). I really enjoy good psychological thrillers. I also enjoy good drama and the occasional chick-flick.

Food - SEAFOOD & MEAT & VEGGIES! Carbs are evil!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm gonna be the rebel here & list more than six. Music, laughter, learning, family, the internet, sex, interesting people, toilet paper, Highlander Grog coffee beans.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh crap - the typical over-active squirrelly brain stuff, of course! But mostly, how I'm 'supposed' to give my very peculiar gifts to the world.. to make the world a better place. To help others learn to give their own gifts despite the baggage that we all carry.....I really try to not "think" about it.. my "purpose" finds its way to me. SWEAR.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Typical" can be fluid. I just moved here less than a year ago so I'm forcing myself to join groups, go out and meet people. Boredom is my single, worst enemy so I am always looking for a distraction!
If I really don't feel like going out, I'll partake of my brand of escapism: music, vodka and my latest 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle (it calms the brain squirrels).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Shit I'll tell you anything.
I 'listen' to song lyrics on a VERY deep level. There is pretty much NOTHING that I'm NOT willing to admit and I would like the same from a partner. As long as you ACCEPT, I will SHARE.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should NOT message me if you read the answers to my questions about sex and think I'm looking for a fuck-and-run or even a fuck-and-stay. I'm ultimately looking for someplace to hang my heart while I'm busy being Wonder Woman but I also just like interesting people.

You DEFINITELY should message me if you're willing to tell me your favorite song.... AND tell me why that song resonates with you..

If you have actually read this far and are serious about getting to know each other then send me a message with the word "explore" in it. Yes, sadly, the dating world dictates this necessity and all those who don't read, follow instruction or care enough to pay attention to detail will be deleted without consideration.