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47 Pensacola, FL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 24
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Umm.. Yeah. I just am.. Busy being me. Living life as it comes. Do NOT send me a message without reading the profile!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing what I can to stay semi-sane and laugh at it all.
I have a kick ass job that I love while still trying to satisfy my Soul.

Doing my best to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable :o)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the (sometimes sarcastic) positive side to life ! My level of optimism will make you puke! And I frequently travel with rainbow squirrels, unicorns & small furry animals. 🐺

I'm good at getting people to introduce me to their skeletons. Then I get out mine & we have a group dance lesson! (I used to be a ballroom dance teacher.)

I excel at communicating in metaphor (as if the above didn't make that obvious) and I frequently quote song lyrics.

"My purpose in life is to shine a light on your dark corners. It's up to you do dance (or wrestle) with the shadows that are created."

I believe deeply in that purpose & it often manifests in the strangest ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My energy (it's been called infectious). My smile, my hair, my brain and its ability to manipulate the English language.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything that nurtures your soul, your brain or your body. Or helps me survive on the planet. That entails a LOT of comic relief (George Carlin was a god in human form!).

Film: Excalibur, The World According to Garp & Patch Adams.

Music: anything pretty much if it's lyrical (rap is not) or has a good dance beat. In another lifetime I would have been a song writer!

I've recently taken a liking to the blues. I love to sing out loud to really goofy songs! I like to beat friends playing Song Pop!

Books - I don't do books so much anymore. Blogs, forums, news websites, people.... the knowledge-junkie in me would rather get that satisfaction from other sources than from a book although I always have 3 going. But.. Give me a synopsis or the Cliff's Notes version - I'm all about learning in the most efficient manner.

I have shelves of books - mostly Psychology and a lot of true crime and serial killer stuff (I've had dates ask if this should worry them - LOL).

Movies: I enjoy action movies (Jason Statham is yummy), comedies & horrors (a good slasher flick can be funnier than a comedy!). I really enjoy good psychological thrillers. I also enjoy good drama and the occasional chick-flick.

Food - SEAFOOD & MEAT & VEGGIES! Carbs are evil!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm gonna be the rebel here & list more than six:

Music, laughter, learning, family, forward-momentum, the internet, sex, interesting people, toilet paper, Highlander Grog coffee beans.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Oh crap - the typical over-active squirrelly brain stuff, of course!
But mostly, how I'm 'supposed' to use my very peculiar gifts to make the world a better place.

Oh, and I have a crazy jukebox playing in my head at all times :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Typical" can be fluid. I just moved here less than a year ago so I'm forcing myself to join groups, go out and meet people. Boredom is my single, worst enemy so I am always looking for a distraction!
I'm loving living here!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a walking tangle of contradiction a lot of the time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You should NOT message me if you read the answers to my questions about sex and think I'm looking for a fuck-and-run or even a fuck-and-stay. I'm ultimately looking for someplace to hang my heart while I'm busy being Wonder Woman.

You DEFINITELY should message me if you're willing to tell me your favorite song.... AND tell me why that song resonates with you..

If you have actually read this far and are serious about getting to know me then send me a message with the word "explore" in it.
Yes, sadly, the dating world dictates this necessity and all messages from those who don't read, follow instruction or don't care enough to pay attention to detail will be deleted without consideration (unless I'm feeling particularly bitchy)!

Good luck to us all.

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