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46 F Pensacola, FL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 2
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Gemini, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am looking for the man who can challenge ME to be the BEST that I can be..but be warned: I am a walking tangle of contradiction and I can be a challenge :)

I love words and thus I proclaim that I am a logophile:

On the outside, I am confident, smart, classy and a bit intense at times. I can be quite the clown when I'm comfortable but when the situation calls for being very serious - I can be more than a little intense. I'm a natural-born crisis-manager and I know how to "get it done".

I tend to think too deeply and find meaning in mundane things and I don't consider this a flaw. I am very intuitive and I love psychology - it makes for fun conversation with strangers.

My top 5 Signature Strengths are:
1. Bravery & Valor (try to scare me please)
2. Gratitude (EVERYTHING is a gift)
3. Honesty, Authenticity & Genuineness (Why the hell would I pretend to be anything OTHER than who I am?)
4. Zest, Enthusiasm & Energy (Try to keep up)
5. Hope, Optimism & Future-Mindedness (see the sentence below)

I can always find the bright side of things and my sunshine & rainbows outlook on life can either make people smile or piss people off (which can be funny at times).

I am an artist trapped in the mind of a scientist. I am a goofy flower-child trapped in the mind of a serious thinker.
I know that I am compatible with men who are in touch with both hemispheres of their brain - it's probably why I have dated a lot of "geeks" and why I love musicians/songwriters!
(If you hunt, fish, camp or watch Nascar, we are not compatible (so don't feel bad when I ignore your messages).

I have a smart-ass sense of humor, and I can be misconstrued (one of a few fears). I am bluntly honest and my closest friends know they can count on brutal honesty from me (always given with laughter and love).

I love laughing, being silly and riding thrill rides at amusement parks. I also enjoy good conversation about things we feel passion for. I love to talk about psychology, philosophy, politics, ancient truths, Karma and other weird stuff like astrology, science fiction, science non-fiction, synchronicity and psychic abilities and how the minds of serial killers work.

I love to cook (it keeps my creative side happy) and the kitchen is my favorite place in the house. I love to entertain friends in my home and I host gatherings where our abs hurt the next morning from laughing so much.

I am hoping to find someone who gives me the freedom to be ME and, like the MIRROR I seek, you are free to be YOU - to live, to learn and to grow together.
If you've read this profile and have some other idea of what I'm looking for (especially if you sort them by the topic of sex), know this:
I can be a lot of fun - but don't try to put me in any box - no matter the size or shape! As soon as you think I'm predictable, I'll switch it up just for the sake of fun and variety.

Ready to have some fun? KEEP READING!
What I’m doing with my life
trying to stay semi-sane and laugh at it all. Doing my best to comfort the disturbed and disturb the comfortable :o)
I’m really good at
Finding the positive (and sometimes sarcastic) side to anything! My level of optimism will make you puke!
Tuning in to people and pushing uncomfortable buttons.
I excel at communicating in metaphor: Connecting with people who have skeletons in their closets or monsters under their beds (in their subconscious) that are tired of being ignored. I give a good smack upside the head to wake them up - and it's usually a symbiotic relationship - I am grateful if they return the favor.

"My purpose in life is to shine a light on your dark corners. It's up to you do dance (or wrestle) with the shadows that are created."
The first things people usually notice about me
My energy (it's been called infectious). My smile, my hair, my brain and its ability to manipulate the English language.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything that nurtures your soul, your brain or your body. Or helps me survive on the planet. That entails a LOT of comic relief (George Carlin was a god in human form!).

Music: anything pretty much if it's lyrical (rap is not) or has a good dance beat. In another lifetime I would have been a song writer!! And I love the ADHD aspect of satellite radio and Spotify radio! I've recently taken a liking to the blues. I love to sing out loud to really goofy songs!

Books - I don't do books so much anymore. Blogs, forums, news websites, people.... the knowledge-junkie in me would rather get that satisfaction from other sources than from a book. Give me a synopsis or the Cliff's Notes version - I'm all about learning in the most efficient manner. I have shelves of books - mostly personal growth titles and a lot of true crime and serial killer stuff (I've had dates ask if this should worry them - LOL).
I haven't read fiction in a very long time (my life is the best fiction I need).

Movies: I enjoy action movies, comedies & horrors (a good slasher flick can be funnier than a comedy!). I really enjoy good psychological thrillers. I also enjoy good drama and the occasional chick-flick.

Food - SEAFOOD & MEAT & VEGGIES! Carbs are evil but difficult to resist!
The six things I could never do without
Who came up with only 6??? Music, laughter, family, the internet, sex, interesting people and toilet paper (not necessarily ordered by importance).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Oh crap - the typical over-active squirrelly brain stuff, of course! But mostly, how I'm 'supposed' to give my very peculiar gifts to the world.. to make the world a better place. To help others learn to give their own gifts despite the baggage that we all carry.....I really try to not "think" about it.. my "purpose" finds its way to me. SWEAR.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical can be fluid. I just moved here a few months ago so I'm forcing myself to join groups, go out and meet people. Boredom is my single, worst enemy so I am always looking for a distraction!
If I really don't feel like going out, I'll partake of my brand of escapism: music, vodka and my latest 1000-piece jigsaw puzzle (it calms the brain squirrels).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I 'listen' to song lyrics on a VERY deep level. There is pretty much NOTHING that I'm NOT willing to admit and I would like the same from a partner. As long as you ACCEPT, I will SHARE.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 32–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You should NOT message me if you read the answers to my questions about sex and think I'm looking for a fuck-and-run or even a fuck-and-stay. I'm looking for someplace to hang my heart while I'm busy being Wonder Woman.

You DEFINITELY should message me if you're willing to play your favorite song for me.. AND tell me why that song resonates with you.
I dare YOU!

If you have actually read this far and are serious about meeting then send me a message with the word "explore" in it. Yes, sadly, the dating world dictates this necessity and all those who don't read, follow instruction or care enough to pay attention to detail will be deleted without consideration.