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26 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:48am
Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English, Japanese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm nerdy, friendly, calculating, hopeful, and doing just fine. I'm a planner looking to meet a doer for adventures, I'll bring the snacks and sunscreen. I'm pretty sure I'm supposed to say something about being laid back or my Myers-Briggs here, but no thank you. I'm always up for a new experience, that's mostly what I'm looking for right now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I'm working in an office listening to rich British people having problems and dreaming of law school.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Information recall, simple life hacks, and listening.

Seeming like someone you've known for years after a week.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair is frequently fun colors. I just can't stop.

Alternatively, how incredibly femme I am. Heels, dresses, and makeup as often as possible. One of my friends just saw me in pants for the first time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Perks of Being a Wallflower, anything by Augusten Burroughs or Neil Gaiman, long standing love affair with Harry Potter, I'm currently chipping away at the Discworld books. I'm a fan of most things written in first person. I have a lot of small library fines. Also, rule books for tabletop RPGs, very important.

Movies: Oh no, so many. American Beauty, Remember the Titans, V for Vendetta, Lord of the Rings, Secretary, The Mummy, Soul Food, Up, Timer, Se7en. Anything with Kevin Spacey. Most things with super heroes. Some Asian horror. Deep abiding love of Disney. Drop Dead Gorgeous is entirely underrated.

Shows: Game of Thrones, Buffy, BSG, Rick and Morty, Broad City, Supernatural, 6 Feet Under, Dexter, Gossip Girl, Dr. Who, Sherlock, Bojack Horseman, 30 Rock, OITNB, most cartoons for adults (and a fair amount that aren't).

Music: My car preset stations were: country, classic rock, a broken station, R&B, top 40, the Mix, alt rock, NPR, top 40, and rap and I have a musical in the CD player. I don't actually have a taste in music. ...Jim Croce.

Food: Fish, avocado, Pad Thai, tortillas, fruit snacks, this is a terrible question. Hold the tomatoes. Update: I'm working on the tomatoes thing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't really want to find out. Having more than 6 things has been working out just peachy.

I wonder why they picked six though? Five is nice and even. Seven's lucky. Why six?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Getting things done. Which is prohibitive to getting things done. Writing. Can I make that into something else? The most efficient way to preform every single task. Punctuation. Table top roleplaying games. Where did I leave my...? Organizing. My next big idea. Pokemon. What to do on a typical Friday night.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grocery shopping. Have you ever been to the grocery store on a friday night? There's like 10 people. It's the most relaxed time to shop, that's my gift to you.

Or, you know, out drinking, hanging around with friends, watching B movies, reading, not watching Netflix in bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
There is a hole in my heart that Robin Williams used to fill.

Neil Gaiman tweeted at me. Twice.
You should message me if
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If you want to play board games or go to a new restaurant or talk for a long time. Or if you'd like to be in my next campaign. Or if you have other suggestions. Or if you like unconventional uses of punctuation (not just the Oxford comma, why is that such a big deal on this site?).

You think sitting on the couch watching cartoons or reading sounds just as fun as going out to dinner somewhere new or a street festival. And you want to experience both.

In the words of Margaret Cho, but not Cheap Trick, I want you to want me. Send me a real message.

Tip: I use the like/star button a lot, so it's easy to find out if I'm interested.