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36 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 29
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Entertainment / Media
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
(For the record...I was doing what I do about seven years before 50 Shades of Grey and I found no inspiration in it...I'm not detracting anything if you found me that way but I have not read the book and I think that I was a bit ahead of the curve for better or worse...)

I am seeking a relationship of an extremely different sort...after years of a relationship in which a certain "romantic" avenue was explored I somehow, accidentally became an expert on an obscure but extremely sexy variety of relationship which I wish to begin to explore again...

I am seeking sexy, type a personalities that are tired of the same old dates and the same old NYC hook ups. I am offering a chance to develop a relationship in which we explore the edgy, role playing world of intrigue in which we both explore the sexiest elements of Betty Page, classic noir, crime fantasy and extreme sexual tension at the sexiest and highest level of drama possible.

Yes...what I am suggesting is building an ongoing (or not) relationship in which we get together while you are dressed to the nines, we plan a "problem" and you find yourself tied up just like they are in the movies as we act, negotiate our tensions and create a dynamic of sexy struggle that drives us...

This is meant to be like the 1940...glamor, glitz, good girls and bad might get your hair pulled, you will be tied up but there will be drama, slow burn build up and it won't be about anything but you vs. the bad guy...getting to struggle while dressed up in things you never usually get to wear while being slowly seduced...

In short...I am looking for women with a sense of imagination, adventure and probably have a kinky side that they would never let their cocktail buddies and boyfriends know about...

Long story short - a relationship bases around the idea of you and I hanging out...then we get into complex role-playing in which you'll find yourself bound and gagged in sexy outfits on a regular basis...the rest being a full in the blank.

I am certain this this is a lot to take in but think about it...if you've ever wanted to explore being tied up a little but always hated the not-fun seriousness of most of the idea of wearing beautiful outfits just for the sake of getting tied up in them while pretending you're in a lot of sexy trouble we might be able to be really good friends...

Most women would be ashamed for anyone to know they even read this far...of you have - you might want to say hello...

For those who doubt my credentials - there is a book written about me!

My blog:
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a many of many talents...a writer, photographer, musician and videographer. I am currently writing a book on this special form of relationship as well as finishing dozens of other is short - you have to keep busy...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Photography/video/music and thinking well outside of the box...

I'm also apparently adept at tying up classy a-type personalities in high heels and short skirts and making it a good time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm rather tall.
I'm rather acerbic.
I'm not anything they thought I would look/act like based on reading this profile.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good books.
Good cinema.
Good food
Good conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
This, that and everything else...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working on many of my projects...out with my friends for a drink and/or meeting new people and playing the villain to their heroine...what better night than a Friday to get all dressed up with no place to go?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think this profile pretty much sums it up...ironically of you begin a relationship with me through here it will probably take up this section of your profile too...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You loved playing cops and robbers a little too much as a kid.
-You've got a lingerie collection you never touch but think might be fun to explore.
-You need a little adventure.
-You've always thought "getting tied up" sounded fun but never a got opportunity to explore it...
-You think Betty Page photos are somewhat fantastic...
-You're bored and dating or just daring...
-You just live the idea of mixing It up, getting a chance to be beautiful, find some trouble and get tied up doing it without "good" results...

I pretty much understand that 90% of women read my profile and go "oh lord what the hell".

I'm not offended...

If interested...on a usual basis (unless you really interest me) I won't be comfortable sending the first e-mail...I would prefer you contact me first - it'd not be rude but I don't like to push this on people who are not interested...shy is good, but this is not a "shy" topic so please don't be shy....)

I obviously do have a normal/plain dating life as well most of the time and this profile isn't nearly the extent of "me"....but when looking for specific things it's good to be direct...