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25 Singapore, Singapore Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:04am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Malay (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Funny (I try to), humble (just kidding), and interesting (I ran out of adjectives). I am also driven, ambitious, and adaptable. I believe in being an all rounder, i.e. left and right brain development, maintaining at healthy lifestyle, and keeping myself abreast of current affairs.

I'm also the sort that likes to have his cake and eat it, so most of the time I'd be multitasking (or trying really hard to). Speaking of cake, I love eating. As long as it's good, it's edible; as along as it's edible, it's good.

Trying to find a meaning and place in this increasingly chaotic world.

What I’m doing with my life
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Whenever I am not doing my stuff or following my daily grind, I'm thinking of ways to save the world. Working on science in a lab, instead of sharing Facebook comments or forwarding chain emails (not that it's a bad thing).

Trying to convince my peers that setting up a mobile nation of mercenary scientists, funded by a mix of crowdsourcing and traditional multinational grants, is a workable idea.

Writing research manuscripts for publication. Lol no who am I kidding, I'm procrastinating like hell here. Shame on me *runs to a corner to cry*

Update x2: It's getting ridiculous I suspect I have pathological procrastination. If you see me online, drop a message to chastise me back to work.

Update x3: I'm applying for grad school and deadline is uncomfortably close - next month. If you see me online, do me a favor and remind me that I am procrastinating my pursuit of permanent residence in the comfortable bosom of academia.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
This portion used to be fuller, but in light of recent events I think nothing here really applies any more.

That said, I'm still good at checking profiles out and not messaging. It's either I'm too interested, leading to a paralysis and fear of fucking it up on the first try; or it is because I have trouble relating to whatever's in it, or not (that said I am convinced that you'd be interesting in real life).

When I delude myself hard enough, I sometimes take my workaholism as a badge of honor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair! First thing people notice is my lovely luscious locks, and sometimes followed by the occasional "is that natural perm?".

Update (temporary, I hope): A beard! A glorious sparsely populated neckbeard. Grown in an attempt to convince people I've golden strands of hair in my beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I appreciate a good mix of fiction and non-fiction. Malcolm Gladwell, Dawkins, Neil Gaiman, and Haruki Murakami are some of my favourite authors! Extra points if you've read Robert Jordan's Wheel of Time series.

For non-fiction, I generally appreciate books like Freakanomics, Super Freakanomics, Blink, Black Swan, etc, i.e. stuff that makes you open your eyes and think about things in a different perspective.

All time favourite would be The Emperor of All Maladies, and Guns, Germs, and Steel. Thinking, Fast and Slow is part of my list as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) The Internet
2) A flat surface to sleep on
3) Science
4) Pictures/videos of animals
5) Puns
6) Lists

But in all honesty, an arbitrary list like this more limiting than revealing - someone's gotta fix this portion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1) My experiments in the lab and the next Nobel Prize winning idea. I also try to look at issues from unorthodox point of views. Also, how'd it be like if one could live forever. (The answer is, increasingly exponential chances of getting cancer as you go further into your immortality. Bummer, ain't it?)

2) My work - I have a habit of bringing my work back home to do, not for a lack of life but for an excess in passion (or so I'd like to think).

3) How Internet anonymity brings out the worst in ourselves (at times).

4) what it means to be "interesting", a question inspired by profiles which I have come across. Does the awareness precede the state of being so or is the other way round? And the degree of subjectivity involved in evaluating this state in others.

5) What does it mean to have an "intelligent conversation", as is found on so many, many profiles over here? Does it entail politics? Religion? Or god forbid, pop culture?!

6) Trying to interpret common adjectives, phrases, and descriptions in OKC profiles. It lends to quite a bit of philosophical musing, whenever someone's profile has "You should message me...if you want to".

7) Sociological matters. It's not on the top of people's lists, and things like microaggressions can be so hard to call out when it's so hard to explain as well. Also, how do I succinctly tell people that "friendzone" is a terrible terrible sexist concept.

8) Whether travelling is the only way of experiencing the world. Almost everyone's profile I encounter states that they like travelling (no doubt due to the algorithm; I am guilty of this too), but I ponder about the authenticity of non-direct ways of travelling, e.g., reading, documentaries, and travelogues.

Ultimately, how to be a better person, both to myself and other people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
experiencing my weekly existential crisis, contemplating the state of my life and the frivolity of spending time online when I embark on activities of more (f)utility.

Either that, or I'm out hanging with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I get sad when I get poorly phrased, or one-word replies.

Second most private thing (bonus info): I have a fondness for rap (not the ones with unsavory lyrics pertaining to obtaining currency and wild harlots, of course)

Third: My sole weakness is a witty lady in red lipstick and eyeliner; she'd be my kryptonite.
You should message me if
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you're sick of one liners with bad spelling and grammar by guys, e.g "hi intro pls", "care to b frens", "hi", "hey".

I'm not going back into the dating game any time, but it'd be great to meet someone for shared activities. There's only so often I can go to a movie/play/event/gallery/brunch place alone, without the luxury of an immediate well thought-out opinion by another.

And I do miss the verbal spars; the voices in my head don't really cut it when I need different perspectives on matters and issues.