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29 Chicago, IL Transmasculine


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-99
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 2
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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transplant from the west coast (the bay, san diego, seattle), moved to chicago from seattle in the fall of 2010 for grad school. from a big family. have been riding a bicycle in the city setting for 10 years. work in higher ed, bartend and advocacy work. feminist. nature lover. secret jock. down to earth. just trying to stay alive and figure out ways to best house all this privilege!
What I’m doing with my life
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just completed a master's degree, thinking about a phd, trying to live out my values of racial (and all) justice, invested in queer community building and empowerment. planning my next move.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
paying attention to details, riding my bike in a city, playing basketball and soccer, rolling joints, writing papers, thinking strategically, gesturing wildly, being calm amidst conflict/crisis, listening, balancing nine million things at once.
The first things people usually notice about me
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from what people have told me: that i'm quiet, and that i have "cool glasses." but let's face it, people probably just think i'm a dumb hipster.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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off the top of my almodovar, orson welles, christopher guest, todd solondz. tv: arrested development, mr. show, strangers with candy. books: theory (foucault, judith butler, louis althusser, dean spade, angela davis), fiction (gary shteyngart, jeanette winterson, cormac mccarthy) mindfulness (thich nhat hanh, jon kabat-zinn). music: everything from fleetwood mac to m83, from tender forever to jean grae, from sun kil moon to austra, from yelle to gil scott-heron. i will eat just about anything and i could eat mexican food for the rest of my life. i try to maintain a whole food, plant-based diet, but if it's free or if someone cooked it for me, i will eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
living near water
family - chosen and given
open, green spaces
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how i can become a farmer and/or live in a traveling tiny home, time and efficiency, the past, the present, the future, hypocrisy and irony, the events that make life stranger than fiction.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
rejoicing! probably out and about with friends, or working or at a meeting, doing yoga or riding my bike, or enjoying being alone.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I was a kid/teenager I wanted to be in the WNBA and I sincerely thought I would be able to achieve this.
You should message me if
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you like adventures, you prefer to be treated well, you didn't just get out of a serious relationship, your sense of self-worth and self-confidence is high.

**okcupid has increased the number of gender identity options, but, confusingly, only limited options remain for the "seeking" section. I'm attracted to female-identified people.**