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35 Alameda, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 19
Asian, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Working on law school
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I was on here once upon a time. Maybe it's time to give it another go. Former high school theatre teacher, director, designer, actor, and stage manager. Now a law student looking to work in family law and with domestic violence issues. Fully credentialed geek who still has a set of polyhedral dice. born and raised in NorCal, with a large dose of the Big Island thrown in.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm halfway through my last year of law school as of December 2014. I work helping victims and survivors of domestic violence. I sadly miss more hockey than i catch lately, and don't get up to the range to shoot my bow nearly enough. I used to teach high school drama and I do miss it now and then but I know i'm doing just as much good now as I did then.
I’m really good at
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listening and then reiterating what someone is saying to someone else
The first things people usually notice about me
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i tend to be pretty quiet unless poked at. that is unless i'm at a hockey game!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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too much to list so just a teaser. heinlein, card (but definitely NOT his politics), shakespeare, buffy, firefly, angel, and all things whedon, doctor who (ten is my doctor!), baz luhrmann, scifi...i'm geek and i'm proud!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I tend to be a bit of a homebody unless I'm pulled out of the house by friends or classmates to get drinks, or dinner. I'm running back and forth so much with classes and internships that quiet down time is nice and needed.
You should message me if
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non-responsiveness is a pet peeve of mine, so unless you are rude, or i think you're spam, or i can't tell what you wrote for some reason, i will do my best to respond.

i'm someone who wants a best friend and a lover to be the same person. i've heard a lot of people say that but then say no because they don't want to risk the friendship. it always felt backwards to me to be intimate first and then become friends.