I have been in only polyamorous relationships for the past few years. I like it for many reasons but I'm always open to both monogamous and responsible non monogamy. Polyamory has taught me a lot about love, relationships and human nature. And for the record I don't believe in double standards, they have no place in polyamory.
I am seeing someone, if that bothers you we probably shouldn't consider more than a friendship. I am open to more if a mutual connection is there.
I am straight forward and upfront as they get and you can always expect honesty. I will speak my mind whether you agree with me or not. Learning about interesting people is my favorite experience. The human mind is amazing to me and is capable of incredible things as long as yours is big and open we'll be just fine.
I'm quite sexual but don't sleep around. I would rather my sexual relationships are more meaningful, specific and mutually beneficial. I believe in honesty and giving everyone the respect they deserve.
All that being said I am not looking for a random hook up. I am looking for a meaningful and mutually rewarding relationship.
If anything I say offends you I would recommend moving on. I am not easily offended and encourage anyone to say whats on their mind anytime.
Well rounded, versatile, middle child.
If you see me clothed you wouldn't know it (you can bring me home to Mom) but I am tattooed and pierced on much of my body. I do those things for my own reasons not for others to see or judge. I like body art / mods on you and me.
Honestly, I really find brunettes, redheads, or some other colorful combination (pink, bright red, purple, etc...) Punk girls, pin up girls attractive.
Tattoos and body piercings catch my eye. Really all of that is rendered irrelevant if you have striking eyes.
Hopefully that doesn't come off superficial. I can find beauty in everyone but that's what I am physically attracted to. I like girls exotic I'm not into the Barbie Doll type, unless there is an unseen dark side.
I am a law abiding, tax paying, voting. I smoke marijuana and am pro choice, pro gay rights. I am not religious. I was raised Catholic but really don't believe any of that and consider myself Atheist. I don't believe in ghosts either, only aliens.
I think one of the best things I have in life is being comfortable with my own death. I have a had 2 near death experiences and wouldn't trade them for anything. It is impossible to have a bad day when you realize it could be your last.
I am more of a girls kinda guy. I love women. Grew up close with my Mom and sis. Most of my friends are girls. I just connect with females well. If that will bother you or you are extremely jealous we probably won't work. That being said I am quite masculine as well. I like trucks, tools, snowboarding, skateboarding, working hard, shooting guns, and getting dirty. I hang out mostly with women, I like shopping, getting my hair done, pedicures, celebrities and gossip & pop culture. I consider myself to be a great listener too (a good quality to have when you hang out with mostly women, haha, sorry).
I consider myself pansexual but think 80% of dudes are gross/dumb.
I am mildly germaphobic with a dash of O.C.D. so if you don't wash your hands after using the bathroom don't contact me. Yuk! I struggle with the 5 second rule, I can't drink a fountain drink with out pushing down all tabs on the lid, I tend to line things up and stack them in neat stacks. The germs of the general public and their lack of hygienic qualities freak me out.
Lastly, I am an open and regular marijuana user. I drink alcohol moderately, a few nights a week but sometimes never in a week. Call these things an escape or whatever you like but I have my reasons for it. I do not let anything own or control my body. If this bothers you we probably not a good match.