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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:28pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In my quest for self improvement of every aspect of my life I try to only surround myself with people that are open, honest and a have a kindred mind. I have no problem cutting someone out of my life that isn't beneficial to my growth and survival.

I have been in only polyamorous relationships for the past few years. I like it for many reasons but I'm always open to both monogamous and responsible non monogamy. Polyamory has taught me a lot about love, relationships and human nature. And for the record I don't believe in double standards, they have no place in polyamory.
I am seeing someone, if that bothers you we probably shouldn't consider more than a friendship. I am open to more if a mutual connection is there.

I am straight forward and upfront as they get and you can always expect honesty. I will speak my mind whether you agree with me or not. Learning about interesting people is my favorite experience. The human mind is amazing to me and is capable of incredible things as long as yours is big and open we'll be just fine.

I'm quite sexual but don't sleep around. I would rather my sexual relationships are more meaningful, specific and mutually beneficial. I believe in honesty and giving everyone the respect they deserve.
All that being said I am not looking for a random hook up. I am looking for a meaningful and mutually rewarding relationship.

If anything I say offends you I would recommend moving on. I am not easily offended and encourage anyone to say whats on their mind anytime.

Well rounded, versatile, middle child.
If you see me clothed you wouldn't know it (you can bring me home to Mom) but I am tattooed and pierced on much of my body. I do those things for my own reasons not for others to see or judge. I like body art / mods on you and me.

Honestly, I really find brunettes, redheads, or some other colorful combination (pink, bright red, purple, etc...) Punk girls, pin up girls attractive.
Tattoos and body piercings catch my eye. Really all of that is rendered irrelevant if you have striking eyes.
Hopefully that doesn't come off superficial. I can find beauty in everyone but that's what I am physically attracted to. I like girls exotic I'm not into the Barbie Doll type, unless there is an unseen dark side.

I am a law abiding, tax paying, voting person. I smoke marijuana and am pro choice, pro gay rights. I am not religious. I was raised Catholic but really don't believe any of that and consider myself Atheist. I don't believe in ghosts either, only aliens.

I think one of the best things I have in life is being comfortable with my own death. I have a had 2 near death experiences and wouldn't trade them for anything. It is impossible to have a bad day when you realize it could be your last.

I am more of a girls kinda guy. I love women. Grew up close with my Mom and sis. Most of my friends are girls. I just connect with females well. If that will bother you or you are extremely jealous we probably won't work. That being said I am quite masculine as well. I like trucks, tools, snowboarding, skateboarding, working hard, shooting guns, and getting dirty. I hang out mostly with women, I like shopping, getting my hair done, pedicures, celebrities and gossip & pop culture. I consider myself to be a great listener too (a good quality to have when you hang out with mostly women, haha, sorry).
I consider myself pansexual but think 80% of dudes are gross/dumb.

I am mildly germaphobic with a dash of O.C.D. so if you don't wash your hands after using the bathroom don't contact me. Yuk! I struggle with the 5 second rule, I can't drink a fountain drink with out pushing down all tabs on the lid, I tend to line things up and stack them in neat stacks. The germs of the general public and their lack of hygienic qualities freak me out.

Lastly, I am an open and regular marijuana user. I drink alcohol moderately, a few nights a week but sometimes never in a week. Call these things an escape or whatever you like but I have my reasons for it. I do not let anything own or control my body. If this bothers you we probably not a good match.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it like I will die tomorrow.

I design, sell and manage construction projects. It's cool, I get to be creative, meet new people everyday , design things they love and get paid. Oh yeah, I get to drive around and listen to music a lot while I work.

I am also a carpenter. There really isn't anything I can't build. My real passion though is designing and building furniture, book cases, cabinets, etc... I like to work with wood (that's what she said).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
First and foremost I make the BEST cup of black coffee one could ever dream of. If you doubt my capabilities then challenge accepted.

Carpentry, snowboarding, swimming, appreciating music of all types, being clean and organized, finding a balance of responsibility and being crazy, making new friends and not having any enemies.

Being completely positive, always. Not to an annoyance but I am an anti downer. I like to make people laugh / happy. Its funny, I actually sometimes piss off pessimists, ha ha to bad for you suckas.

NOT having a clue about football, baseball, hockey and basketball.

Being a gentleman.

Running for long distances. Its meditative.

Reading minds and predicting the future.

Being self sufficient. I never want to burden anyone. I work, pay bills, own a car, own a home and I'm not on probation.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmmm...... That I make them feel comfortable I guess. I will talk to a stranger like an old friend.

I'm always happy.


Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: How to. Owners manuals. Shampoo bottle in the shower.

Movies: Funny or deep make you think type.

Shows: Investigation Discovery, true murder, crime and serial killer stuff.

Music: All of it, well except for new country. I listen to everything but to name some faves: Greatfull Dead, Phish (yeah I am part hippie), Pretty Lights, Sublime, Amy Winehouse, Beastie Boys, Electronic, hip hop, metal, jazz, reggae, girl bands.

Old school punk - Misfits, Circle Jerks, The Exploited, The Dead Kennedys.
Hip Hop - Old School Gangsta Rap, Atmosphere, The Roots, Kanye West, Beastie Boys.
Metal - Hellmouth, Iron Maiden, Slipknot, Cavalara Conspiracy, Rob Zombie, Old Metallica (pre Black Album), Black Sabbath.
Country - Only Hank 1,2 & 3, Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, Willie Nelson, Merl Haggard. If you hand me a Toby Keith disc I will use it for a Frisbee.
My favorite is to see local Detroit bands at small bars. I don't have enough time to list every favorite show. I have been to over 400 shows, concerts and music festivals.

Food: Everything. The spicier the better Yo.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Cats
2. Kicks
3. Music
4. People to talk/listen to
5. Anticipation
6. Optimism

*Not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How being a cancer survivor taught me to live my life to the fullest every second, every minute, every hour, every day.

Random filth.

Evolution, Natural Selection, human behavior



The dumbing down of and rapid demise of society.

What I can pierce next.

Sex. Yeah, I said it. Come on who doesn't? Its nature. If you don't maybe were not a match?

How to be a better lover; mentally, emotionally and physically.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights are good for a whiskey or scotch on the rocks.

Hopefully watching live music.

Chillin at home to make the most of my Saturday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I consider nothing private and will tell anyone anything if asked.

Things I generally don't come out and tell everyone I meet right away is that I like a pain. Not like getting my ass kicked but tattoos, body piercings, shots at the doc, giving blood, medical procedures, mostly needles.. I try to maintain a high threshold for pain. You never know when that might come in handy.

I use a bite guard at night because I grind my teeth when I sleep.
You should message me if
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If you want a friend that will tell it like it is and not just what you want to hear.
If you want to get coffee.
If you want to try and offend me, not an easy task.
If you love cats.
If you want to talk about our cats.
You think I'll dig your pheromones, FYI...that's real important to me.
If my profile pissed you off enough that you want to tell me to Fuck off. That would make me laugh. But make it genuine, don't just say it to say it.