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holdthedream

33 Columbia, MO Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10, 2012
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Are you the type to call in sick so you can run off to the zoo or museum? Do you really enjoy games ( the board and card type) and walking and talking?

I'm a modern american nomad, though that urge is much less prevalent than it used to be. I am satisfying it more through travel than just up and moving.

I've moved a lot, I strive to be the best person I can and though I don't always succeed I do try. I want to help others and create beautiful things before I leave this world for the next. I like doing things, I enjoy movies, but more often if I want to watch a movie I'd rather at least go out to do it. I like home as much as the next person and love to curl up with a book, but more often I am going going going.

I am odd, funny, and smart
What I’m doing with my life
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If you figure it out you're welcome to tell me. Working for the government, finally. Kind of a long story. So, in other words, I spend as much time as possible not working. No really, even working for the government is a hurry up and wait game.

I've worked in the mortgage industry, real estate, photo developing, pizza, warehousing, libraries, and for a welfare to work program, which was my favoreite.

I have a Master in Diplomacy and International Commerce and came within a hairsbreadth of working for the government once before. It's a long story and involved a move to and from Hawaii and well...it's a long story. Right now I am happy to be around friends and try to make my way through life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning. Honestly, I learn really fast. Beyond that I don't know...maybe figuring people out, but I don't focus on this the way I used to. I'm good at helping people I think.

I read like, woah fast, and I do sing and volunteer in my spare time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
At first people think I'm quiet. I like to laugh and to smile, though the smile often comes across as a smirk. It generally isn't at your expense, I find life very amusing. You're welcome to ask me why I might be laughing or smiling - I think I'd like it if someone actually did that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love books, movies, music and food. I would love to write a book. I read fantasy, sci-fi, biographies, and random things that take my interest.

My goal for this year is to start learning how to play the guitar and to that end I bought a guitar recently. So we'll see how that goes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have learned that I could do without everything but people and a place to live that is free from negative emotions. Everything else is details. I've moved enough, been homeless, and poor enough that anything else I can deal with.

Maybe sunshine though and sleep. I like both of those.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe, happiness and how to find it, ways to motivate myself and others. People, I think a lot about people. I'm always struggling to understand and make sense of everything and find the patterns in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lord knows. Depends who i can get ahold of, I love being at home if I have someone there to spend quality time with or a nice book to curl up with. Generally, though I like be out. It doesn't have to be partying, but it might be. I love dancing, movies, pool, bowling, but more than that I love doing all that and more with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't mind sharing private things if you ask, so ask away.

I have a list of top 50 craziest people I've ever met, though I don't think I'm particularly crazy myself. Though I guess that wasn't always as true.
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