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40 Lodi, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:03am
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5' 7" (1.71m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a divorced, educated women with one child and extremely bad luck with relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a loan officer so I help people purchase homes and build wealth. I am also a fitness coach when I'm not working in real estate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pretty good at accounting, handy around the house and I clean my own pool filters.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I can only!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read non- fiction and biographies more than novels. Learning is constant with me. I am thinking about renting a masonry saw to do some landscaping! Scares me too! I love movies but typically hate academy award winning films so I guess I don't have taste. ;) I enjoy cooking and anyone that stops by is welcome. My home is usually the gathering place especially during the summer. The BBQ and the smoker get a workout!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, my daughter, wine, my iphone and exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I being unrealistic thinking that that true love and partner exists and is a possibility??
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recovering from a long week and prepping for work on the weekends. If I don't have plans, I work. My schedule is flexible most of the time so I don't mind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have no real secrets. Call me boring but I'm honest to a fault.
You should message me if
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If you are single(totally), like to have fun, travel and laugh with friends...I need pics because a genuine smile is necessary. Tough guy poses and fast vehicles is not a turn on. The tough guy looking facial hair isn't either. Need a genuine man. I like to be healthy and live life to the fullest. I am also a little old fashioned so you need to message me, visiting my profile doesn't prompt me to contact you.