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23 Los Gatos, CA Man


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  • Ages 20–25
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Last online
Yesterday – 7:49pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Trying to be as sincere and honest a person as possible. Doing my part to fight irony culture and so should you.

I indiscriminately make good conversation with most people about most things in a way that makes them feel listened to and challenged at the same time.

Kind of a monk-like person but with an affinity for perversion (like, in the Zizek sense and more) and good jokes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently graduated from Swarthmore College in PA. Formerly a research assistant at a few neuro labs at Stanford (hence the occasional location change) working on emotional neuroscience and cognitive enhancement.

Right now I read and think a lot about organizing Asian American communities, current political issues/history, machine learning, and computer science.
I’m really good at
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reading facial expressions and body language. Listening to shit people say. Thinking through difficult things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are probably the stark contrast between my smile and resting asshole face, and maybe the fact that my wardrobe limits me to dressing like a Korean pop-star ninja. But is that really a limitation?

(But probably my boobs. [note: this was true some seven months ago when I was a lean 200 lbs. I was huge(!) and walked around with a shaved head and older white ladies crossed the street to avoid walking by me at night. Being all thick and jacked and bald was kinda fun but precluded a lot of social interactions. I've since dropped close to 15 lbs and the big hugeness is no longer present.])
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currently reading:

"The Debt Resisters' Operations Manual"

"Godel, Escher, Bach"

"A History of God"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
HI THIS IS THE FUN PART OF MY PROFILE. I like thinking a lot. Here are some things I've been thinking about recently, and if you have any thoughts about them (or anything you want to validate with somebody else) I want to know:

(This used to be filled with stuff but those questions were years old. I'm now thinking about things like cognitive computing, the importance of a/theism in community organizing, Asian American gender and sexuality, colonialism, queer theory, and neural networks.)

(But these questions remain:)

Why is Metal Gear Solid the greatest game series ever made?

Why do white people say the darnedest things?

Am I the person my ex wants me to be? (jesus christ i'm kidding about this one)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading. Or being straight Patrick Bateman with my neopets stock portfolio yeeeeeeeeee mayne
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Just admitted I play neopets like an aggressively Anglo-American millionaire psychopath soooooooooooooo

Also, not a very private thing as it's a pretty prominent occurrence should you ever meet me in person, but after I started working out I've never been able to reconcile my newfound width with my ability to turn. So, in a Zoolander-esque quandary, I can't turn for shit and always bump into things that happen to be within six feet of me.
You should message me if
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you think capitalism/racism/sexism/-ism-ism-ism isn't a fun time and like to make human connections that make life feel like a less terrifying proposition