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29 M New Haven, CT

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:43am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), C++ (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Let's begin with a list of personal keywords meant to expedite your browsing, because really, who has time for this?
bikes, photography, natural history, plants, board games, books, bookish, the books, atheism, travel, watercolor, ink, open source, linux, evolution, ecology, conservation, volition, morality, accordion, Mandarin, perfumes/scents, Socotra, frankincense, New Yorker.

Still interested? Read on...

I could be similarly summarized as an introverted, cardigan-wearing, bike-nerd scientist with an unusual interest in flowers, books, and board games. A hermit with social tendencies. Elitist academic asshole who can identify NPR hosts by voice; ASMR encourager. An asocial anchorite. A derelict bookworm.

Shamelessly, I photograph flowers:
What I’m doing with my life
Living out a carefully devised scheme to travel the world on someone else's dime, or rather, it's usually the government's dime, so I suppose in a sense you're probably helping pay my way.

Made an impression collecting flowers, now turning it into a professional gig. This happens to be at Yale, thus my arrival in New Haven from my former love, Chicago.
I’m really good at
Self-aggrandizement and modesty, simultaneously.
The first things people usually notice about me
An unspeakable unapproachable air.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bougie Crit films: Kurosawa, Woody Allen, Bergman, Truffaut.
Documentaries: Burden of Dreams, The Act of Killing, Hoop Dreams.
Music right now: Vladimir Martynov
Books right now: The Drunken Botanist
The six things I could never do without
I'm not really all that attached.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I should go out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I live by my own clock -- which is to say, I sleep at odd hours, work for absurd stretches of time, and rarely align my schedule with a typical day/night regime that would bring me into contact with others...

I'm an addict for niche market perfumes: Serge Lutens, By Kilian, Nasomatto, CdG, etc. I tend towards unique and minimalist scents that highlight one or a few notes exceptionally well.

Lately I'm even more into incense -- you could say I'm incensed for incense. I make my own concoctions from raw woods, waxes, resins, herbs and extracts. Don't worry, I'm not a wicken.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
weirdo seeks weirdo.