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26 M Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 1:36pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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~Strikingly handsome art student, seeking platonic friend-dates with other lgbt people~

~Eventually I'll put up new photos~ HRT struggles~

I took that personality test again, and I'm INFJ (but now "moderate" for the first three letters, and "slight" for the last). Wowe, have I finally managed to balance out my personality traits? When I took some test about being ~masculine/feminine~ and some other binary thing (idk there was an X and Y axis), I was literally smack dab in the center of the graph. 0, 0.

I guess I'm bisexual, but I actually use "bi" and "gay" interchangeably. Because both. It's really both. I'll also use "androsexual." I mean, generally speaking I'm ~sexually attracted~ to men and butches. But honestly I don't really think about this very much.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being tired/sleeping.
Being judgmental and non-judgmental simultaneously.
Being taller than most people.
Watering my plants regularly.
Building altars maybe.
Giving relationship advice?
I have a pretty good sense of smell.
Blocking people on FB for bigoted remarks because I read the comments~*~*~
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm ~tall and handsome~ and then that I'm ~funny and interesting~

And then that I'm not a pain in the ass, which is allegedly appreciated by all.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"What if I actually answered this question?"
"Eh, okay."

I'm in the middle of several books that are turning out to be really cool, and they're all books about gender/history of gender/academic meanderings about same. I don't read a lot of novels. Eventually I'll get back into them.

I have a slight love affair with Peter Greenaway, but I am realizing that my friend was correct in stating that he is drinking too much of his own koolaid. But I like him anyway because of the hipster art cred. But also I haven't had the patience to sit through any of his movies lately. So idk. I enjoyed the Thin Man series.

Idk, I've been getting into trashy reality tv shows, because I got over myself. But I'll watch other things also. I started watching Columbo but then I got distracted. Ghost shows?

"What if I actually listed bands here?" "Eh, fine. But don't capitalize any of it."
qotsa, mark lanegan, klaus nomi, chelsea wolfe, deftones, ugh answering the actual question is terribly boring~

I am an omnivore. I don't like all of this ~lifestyle~ eatings of *either* vegetation OR meat. I require both. I'm also really into chocolate and black tea, and I think they pair well. (And if you wanted to eat chocolate/drink tea with me while watching shows about ghosts, then that would be cool & I would be down.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"What if I actually answered this text field question without some smarmy joke response?"
"Well... I mean I could..."
"Will today be the day I actually do that?"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinky stuff.
Laws. =|
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recontextualizing discursive rigamarole into idk some other variety of thing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

Also it's pretty rare that I will "click" with someone, but sometimes it actually happens. Although generally only with other non-threatening/non-douchey weirdy art-brained people. Or like, people who are nice AND sensitive, but not out of a sense of obligation. But literally because they're nice and sensitive/considerate.

Are you high-energy on the gogogo? I mean you're probably cool, but I'm on a more subdued wavelength, y'know? I'm not going sky diving with you.

Maybe also I poke fun at libertarians and atheists in my spare time (I mean, some may choose to take it personally, but shhh. You don't have to). Aaaannnd I'm not into the Burner crowd. Aaannnd my nerd cred is 0. Sorry.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
[Tags: transgender, trans, genderqueer, ftm, ftx, feminist, lgbt, blah blah blah.]

Please send me a personal story about anything. I just like hearing about your day. Try to not be random on purpose, because I can tell.

If you are a fellow artist who is really skilled at some specific craft and want to teach me a thing, then please contact me. I like learning things.

Also for fun, message me your most ~ridiculous~ sexual fantasy. Just don't make it novel-length, ok? Like a paragraph or whatever is sufficient.

Regarding platonic friend-dates with lgbt people: yeah totally. I mean don't pressure me to go outside? But definitely talk to me and let's get to know each other or something. Group-dates are totally acceptable & encouraged. Why not link me to yer FB if you're feeling up to it? I mean, you could.