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hommenym

26 Oakland, CA Man, Trans Man, Genderqueer, Transsexual, Androgynous

Man, Trans Man, Genderqueer, Transsexual, Androgynous

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 27
Orientation
Gay, Queer, Bisexual, Homoflexible
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Queer trans ghost seeking contact with like, the same or whatever.

Okay and I finally looked this shit up:
Scorpio rising, Taurus sun, Libra moon. Um + Earth Dragon.
I barely understand this system but I enjoy that it's a thing that people enjoy reading into. I think that's pretty neat.
I also alternate between INFP and INFJ, depending on the day I guess? Sort of balanced between perceiving and judging? Whatever.
I think my enneagram was 4 or something.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making the art. Internetting. Taking really long naps.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Forgetting that I'm boiling water.
Using valley-speak sincerely.
Thumb wrestling.
Not talking for long periods of time.
Holding really still.
Using the Patch tool.
Not feeling bad about carving out phrases from bad books and re-arranging them into better books.
Having prophetic dreams.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They notice that I'm cute, but it's like, who the hell are you, and why are you touching me?

I don't have a lot of reasons to go around people with my shirt off, but people like giving me nasty looks about my chest scars and I don't know what their problem is. Like it's perfectly normal to have scars like this what the hell don't look at me. Jesus.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I am in the middle of a lot of books and I'm probably not going to finish them, and I'm not going to feel ashamed about it. If a book isn't grabbing me then I mean let's critique the author, and not the reader~*~*~.

I guess I like movies about ghosts? But there aren't a lot of good ones. Most of them aren't good. I should probably focus on making good media about ghosts. This is just a thing that comes up sometimes I'm honestly not obsessed or anything (?).

I just watched some shows about??? Random crap??? I am really not very picky. Have you noticed in the last X years all the shows have had like, farty little musical scores? I think it's great. Every single show has this ridiculous farty score to it, and so it's like you're always watching the same fucking thing. This show is about sharks, and this show is about models, but it's the same fucking post-production methods. Wow.

Here's some music links:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYgULqW5dBg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjSkktZL7zk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Slk-Zo5mGVw
(Ok that's probably actually plenty. Let's chat.)

I like eating food. I fucking love eating food. If you feed me I will probably eat the thing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aaiirr.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't really want to have to think about anything, honestly. If you can communicate with your eyes and want to like share senses ("here feel this cool texture!" "smell this great thing!") then that would be better. I am dodging this question so hard and I want you to know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm open to having more like pseudo-romantic pseudo-partners.

I also don't really move when I sleep?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a queer, a trans, a ghost, a witch, a weirdy, if you like good textures, if you're really into dirt, if you have cats, if you want to platonically hold hands, if you smell really nice, if you want to tell me about your day sometimes, if you're not entirely up your own butthole with snobbery, if you want to like hang out or whatever, if you want to cuddle on the regular.

I'm also really into awkward, straightforward, and blunt like honest communication about feelings. I think it's great. Talk 2 me.