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hommenym

25 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:18pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Sometimes I like to re-write my profile because.

I am a tall human who is handsomely charming and contains the standard set of fingers and toes and this sort of business. I am a fancy-schmancy art student who is all over the place medium-wise, but I mean my CONCEPTS are fairly related to each other, hypothetically.

I cover my anxieties and depressions by oozing coolness. Gosh, so cool.

I'm one of these fucking people who will spend all day in a library if you let me. Especially if they have a lot of good books there about all kinds of things, and they're open late. Particularly if they have nice couches or whatever. Idk. I actually haven't done this in a while, because it's very spoon-intensive.

I used to care more about grammar, but then I realized that I'm mortal and I should not care about that stuff so much. I mean if we can communicate effectively, then I don't care.

I've also learned how to gauge other people very well, and I can PROBABLY TELL fairly accurately whether or not it's going to "work out," and also what kinds of issues are likely to come up, and how exactly it would go. I can also probably tell how long these things would take. I mean, I'm getting really good at this, and therefore it is a skill.

I also used to be really snotty, but now I enjoy reality TV shows sometimes. But I'm still kind of snotty.

I'm not good with names or math, but my depth perception and conceptualizing-skills, blah blah are fine. I am the most smart and most humble, so there.
What I’m doing with my life
My plan is to get my ~art degree~ and then casually enter state politics maybe. I used to study policy, and y'never really *stop*.

I might also just casually enter some kind of avant garde art scene and become snotty and incomprehensible.

Technically I'm going to have to figure out something ~positive~ to do with myself, so I mean whatever it is will likely be okay.
I’m really good at
A list:
1. Apartment shopping. I can find problems (anything from bugs to bad energy), and blah blah, this is a useful skill.
2. Working with my hands. I trust my hands, and I trust myself. As I've gotten older, my hands have become less stable, but I know when that's happening, and I can adjust my schedule/projects/etc accordingly.
3. Taking naps.
4. Not being a shithead.
5. Staying in.
6. Staying calm.
7. Figuring out interpersonal problems.
8. Being nice to myself.
9. Being nice to other people.
10. Being nice to animals.
11. Being really vague.
12. Self-soothing techniques.
13. I think my posture is pretty good most of the time.
14. Figuring out my own emotions without asking for help.
15. Teaching myself to get over things, and blah blah increases self-confidence.

Things I'm not good at:
1. Math.
2. Remembering names consistently.
3. Being high-energy/bouncy. (See "things I'm good at #6).
4. Talking a lot. I can talk, but I usually don't. It's okay.
5. Being really outgoing. I have some social-anxiety things, and I'm wary about people in general. I also don't like bothering people + I'm an introvert.
6. Appearing friendly.
7. Keeping track of multiple lines of conversation. Please focus on one topic at a time, or at least finish your point before moving onto the next one. Try to be on the short/clean side of making your point. This is because I have memory problems, and I REALLY want to get through anything you want to talk about, but please do so in an organized way.

Hypothetically, I will "update" this.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and handsome. Literally, that's it.

I've been mistaken for every gender and orientation... people see whatever they want to see, and they'll hit on me regardless.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I've been getting really exhausted by standard books. I have a lot of books, but I just don't have the energy for them. SO LATELY, art books with a lot of photographs and diagrams and sketches. Into it. I guess if I come across a good trans book, I'll definitely flip through it.

I haven't really been watching movies lately, SORRY. But if I come across any good movies about ghosts (not categorized as "horror") then I'll probably watch it. Ghost movies are nifty, and I will watch the shit out of them.

Shows? I guess I just started making my way through Columbo. I finished some other show about weddings, and another show about cats. Idk, netflix stuff. You know the deal.

I just got some tree music. So that, but also a lot of other stuff that is very different or sort of the same.

I will definitely eat food. I enjoy all kinds of meats and vegetables and tea. Chocolate, definitely. I have not been in a cooking mood lately, so I've been microwaving booshy frozen foods. But if somebody wanted to cook for me, I'd definitely be into it. I enjoy flavors, and also salt.
The six things I could never do without
Can't I just list my vital organs and be a jerk and get this section over with?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I guess ~queer things~ and stuff about the law, and stuff about ghosts, and plants... I am probably hoarding too many art supplies because I have too many project ideas that I really need to do something about. I spend a lot of time thinking about paperwork and money and adult phone calls and trying to exist. I also think a lot about medical whatever.

I keep forgetting to draw out my dreams, so that I can save them as notes. And then I can just archive them in a physical location, by date.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably doing a thing alone, because I feel like it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
1. Trans.
2. Technically bi, predominantly androsexual.
3. I have a massive block list on FB. It is the biggest block list in the world. Because.
4. I ran out of parents.
5. I'm really sensitive to/about very specific things.
6. Idk other stuff.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
[Tags: transgender, trans, genderqueer, ftm, ftx, feminist, lgbt, blah blah blah.]

Please send me a personal story about anything. I just like hearing about your day. Try to not be random on purpose, because I can tell.

If you are a fellow artist who is really skilled at some specific craft and want to teach me a thing, then please contact me. I like learning things.