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hommenym

26 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 24
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Interdimensional ecto being, temporarily embodied in handsome casing. Does the art. Re-disembodies in dreamspace.

Premium-quality ultra queer with down-to-earth roto-functionality. Sleek and sub-modern. Cozy. Rustic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reconverging in the middle, he saw the thing that would shatter the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Predominantly polite, keeps balance in unbalanceable situations. Falls over on flat surfaces. Why.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way I casually pass through walls in the night. Also I sneeze with my mouth shut. I don't talk, I simply transmit word-ideas directly to others. Cool.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
What
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Why thing, when you could not?

Uhh, I can literally spend all day listening to Mark Lanegan, drinking tea, and talking about ghosts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Apparently most all of my friends are on here, but I never get matched with most of them, and it sort of makes me feel weird?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Haunting yer local haunt.

Not really, I am a home-body.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a tran, also.

If I ever write something kind of boring/banal in a message, feel free to bring up some other kind of topic that's like, more daring or weird or whatever. If u want to~

I'm on a ~secret mission~ (but not really) to have like, 20 boyfriends. But mostly just like friends but also like... you know. (& I know I'm listed as gay right now, but it sorta moves between that, bi, queer, whatever.)(Orientation is really Whatever, but it'll probably be weird if you're straight.)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
For fun/shits/giggles, here's something to work with for messaging:

1. Current media/arts obsession, and why.
2. I learned to be sort of conservative about how I answer sex questions, because I keep running into dbags. Does this resonate with you in any type of way? (So obv., don't assume things. We'd have to talk about it.)(/This is an invitation to talk about it.)
3. I like no-pressure tea outings, preferably during the day, or when it's not a weird time at night. Hypothetically in a small group (four or less). Know of a place? Let's discuss.
4. Tarot weirdies inquire within.
5. Anything weird happen to you lately? Tell me about it.
6. Have any ghost stories?
7. If you could rewrite/re-cast some kind of cult movie favorite... idk, what would that be like?
8. I guess you could privately message about relevant facts about you (that maybe aren't on your profile, but that are Important/Personal), if you were interested in being one of 20 boyfriends/etc.
9. I have a short-term memory problem. Are you the patient type?
10. Uhh, I guess I'm really subby, and I like helping people complete tasks. I also really enjoy giving critiques about various kinds of art (I'm interdisciplinary-minded, so it can be anything.) Want an opinion? Help with something? Message me bb.
11. What
12. I sometimes add and sometimes delete things from my ethnicity category, because I have a lot of feelings about having shit, but not knowing shit. I guess we could talk about this.
13. I'm actually really silly, but people either get a lot of heavy stuff from me, or a lot of silly stuff, & usually not both. Wtf. How about you?
14. Free space.
15. If you recognize me from irl, message me. It's o k.
16. Have any fun board and/or card games? Or whatever? I will totally play with you. Just don't be a dbag.
17. Maybe casual sex. But only if you're some kind of queer, and some kind of weirdy, & if we vibe together and shit. ok. But hey, arrange a tea date & let's find out. I'm busy and cautious~ and tired~... so bonus points if you wanna have a casual nap-date. Afternoon cuddle date? Dude I don't know.
18. I'm getting into casual platonic flirting with friends. How about you?