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50 Albuquerque, NM Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an outgoing, but quiet sort of a fellow. My background is in the visual arts + engineering.

I'd be a good match for someone who's busy, but would like to go out with an interesting, articulate fellow every now & then. I'm a hedonist, but also a bit of a nerd when it comes to history, tech, etc. I'm always up for an adventure ; )
What I’m doing with my life
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I've got a few irons in the fire with my projects, which are mostly doing artwork & renovating historic buildings.

In the art realm, I'd say I'm a deconstructionist, which is a philosophy I took up during grad-school. For me, making art entails upholding ugly stuff for it's aesthetic value, highlighting /emphasizing mistakes & errors, hijacking other artists' work, etc.

The buildings I'm working on at the moment are an A&C house in a historic neighborhood and a mid-century modern house designed by a regionally famous architect.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a peculiar talent for figuring out what's going on just beyond the horizon of my awareness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, good manners, & my Appalachian accent, y'all!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I tend towards non-fiction. I'm reading 'Stiff' by Mary Roach at the moment. It's a good read if you have a morbid sense of curiosity.

Shows: I tend not to watch too much TV. I'm more into alt music performances, gallery openings, cultural events, etc.

Music: Eclectic – anything clever & offbeat, from Classical/Opera to Alternative, Gothic, Punk, and the like.

Food: Anything from sushi to shepherd's pie (oh, & I like the spicy stuff too). I'm not too picky, so I'll pretty much eat whatever comes down the pike..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, Booze, & Coffee
Family & Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why things are the way they are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out on the town with friends or at home with a book and a cat curled up in my lap.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got several piercings, but no tattoos - yet!
; )
You should message me if
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You see something you like in my profile & would enjoy having a drink while engaging in intelligent conversation. You're not into jealousy or relationship drama. You'd like to meet someone who's truly different from the norm