Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i used to be a competitive rope skipper as a child. it turns out i
am neither competitive nor particularly athletic, so i have become
a radical feminist instead.
i am a tender slut, with a sensitive and strong heart. i care a lot
about myself and about others.
i'm genderqueer, kinky, poly, anti-imperialist, kind, dating
someone i love a lot, and i was born in another country. i'm mostly
interested in sprouting sexual friendships and sweet dates right
now. i also want to spend time with people who like to feel really
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
aligning what i long for and believe and how i live. making art and
talking about feelings with kids. writing and reading poems.
learning to support healing and transformation. learning to love
myself and others better and better, in action. this includes
participating in collective struggles for liberation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making friends. appreciating bellies. listening presently.
combining bright and unusual colors. feeling. planning ahead and
being spontaneous. noticing and interrogating gender and sexual
dynamics in colonization. speaking languages. deconstructing gender
binary with teenagers. being honest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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fresh fruits and vegetables. raw meats! such as sashimi and
separatist queer zines and pamphlets (particularly those written in
the early 90s.) an example is "QUEERS READ THIS: A leaflet
distributed at pride march in NY, Published anonymously by
i love not watching television. i particularly love not watching
television with other people. except sometimes i really really love
watching project runway.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
salt water (the sea, tears)
outdoor spice markets, hand holding
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people i love. how people feel. the effects of colonial histories
on the present. imperialism, now. bodies/ boundaries/ borders/
resistance. light. how i am feeling. glitter, bright colors,
cultural appropriation and queer aesthetics. how to ask for what i
want and need, how to feel what i want and need. capitalism,
zionism, white supremacy: how to heal from and within these
systems, and support others to do the same for the sake of
liberation and reparations. what the view off of hills looked like
at night before the industrial revolution. how to paint that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
shabbat with friends or at some queer art event/ potluck/ show/
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have little to no skill when it comes to baking or caring for
plants, despite very much wanting to seem domestically savvy. i
fear i am probably tricking no one. one day i will know how to
also, i like lesbian folk music. THERE. I SAID IT.
You should message me if
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i tend to be into genderqueer folks, switches who are toppy of
center, androgenous folks, and genderfuckers. i am attracted to
many, many genders and bodies and humans.
i am into present folks, who care about feeling their aliveness and
have a capacity for being in contradiction and loving well. and
people who believe that capitalism is harmful and want to find new
ways of living and loving in community, even when it is not easy.
message me if you want to have play dates! or go on a new friend
adventure! probably not if you want to have a serious primary
partnership cause i am really in love with my sweetie and feeling
pretty committed to our relationship having a lot of space in my
life right now. thank you, dear people!
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