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homostache

29 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
May 12
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), Arabic (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i used to be a competitive rope skipper as a child. it turns out i am neither competitive nor particularly athletic, so i have become a radical feminist instead.

i am a tender slut, with a sensitive and strong heart. i care a lot about myself and about others.

i'm genderqueer, kinky, poly, anti-imperialist, kind, dating someone i love a lot, and i was born in another country. i'm mostly interested in sprouting sexual friendships and sweet dates right now. i also want to spend time with people who like to feel really alive.
What I’m doing with my life
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aligning what i long for and believe and how i live. making art and talking about feelings with kids. writing and reading poems. learning to support healing and transformation. learning to love myself and others better and better, in action. this includes participating in collective struggles for liberation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making friends. appreciating bellies. listening presently. combining bright and unusual colors. feeling. planning ahead and being spontaneous. noticing and interrogating gender and sexual dynamics in colonization. speaking languages. deconstructing gender binary with teenagers. being honest.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my warmth
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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fresh fruits and vegetables. raw meats! such as sashimi and carpaccio. lemons!

separatist queer zines and pamphlets (particularly those written in the early 90s.) an example is "QUEERS READ THIS: A leaflet distributed at pride march in NY, Published anonymously by Queers."

i love not watching television. i particularly love not watching television with other people. except sometimes i really really love watching project runway.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the horizon
community
sunlight
salt water (the sea, tears)
outdoor spice markets, hand holding

asymmetry.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
people i love. how people feel. the effects of colonial histories on the present. imperialism, now. bodies/ boundaries/ borders/ resistance. light. how i am feeling. glitter, bright colors, cultural appropriation and queer aesthetics. how to ask for what i want and need, how to feel what i want and need. capitalism, zionism, white supremacy: how to heal from and within these systems, and support others to do the same for the sake of liberation and reparations. what the view off of hills looked like at night before the industrial revolution. how to paint that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
shabbat with friends or at some queer art event/ potluck/ show/ dance party
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i have little to no skill when it comes to baking or caring for plants, despite very much wanting to seem domestically savvy. i fear i am probably tricking no one. one day i will know how to ferment, DAMMIT.

also, i like lesbian folk music. THERE. I SAID IT.
You should message me if
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i tend to be into genderqueer folks, switches who are toppy of center, androgenous folks, and genderfuckers. i am attracted to many, many genders and bodies and humans.

i am into present folks, who care about feeling their aliveness and have a capacity for being in contradiction and loving well. and people who believe that capitalism is harmful and want to find new ways of living and loving in community, even when it is not easy. swoon.

message me if you want to have play dates! or go on a new friend adventure! probably not if you want to have a serious primary partnership cause i am really in love with my sweetie and feeling pretty committed to our relationship having a lot of space in my life right now. thank you, dear people!