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honest_kind_fun

56 / M / Straight / Single

Minneapolis, Minnesota

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:33pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am an honest, kind-hearted, gentle man. I'm really interested in meeting someone who is available for friendship and, ultimately romance. But friendship first!

I'm educated: M.Ed, MA

I lived in Greece during my early teens

I'm allergic to cats, but not dogs:-(
What I’m doing with my life
I am a behavioral health clinician by training, working with patients who have genetic disorders. Every day is a new learning opportunity and working in medicine is an intellectually stimulating experience. My daughter is following her dad's footsteps and going into a helping profession as well. She's enrolled in a new program at a local college and is very excited. I am so proud of her!

* Reinventing myself after a 30 year long, mostly positive marriage.

* Looking forward to meeting new people.
I’m really good at
I'm a great cook, love playing tennis and give terrific foot massages:-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am intellectually curious about everything and ask lots of questions.

Originally from Deep South, I'm a southern gentleman with faint remnants of a southern accent. I have a very dry sense of humor.

I am humbled by the generosity, kindness, and beauty all around us.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Tiny Furniture, The Contender, 12 Monkeys, Michael Clayton, Syriana, Traffic, LA Confidential, China Town, Blade Runner, Sweeney Todd, Dune, American Beauty, Road to Perdition, To Kill A Mockingbird, Last Tango in Paris, Blue Velvet, The Year of Living Dangerously, Network, Most Coen brothers movies, Any movie starring Al Pacino and Helen Mirren, Far From the Madding Crowd (1967 version), The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Crossing Delancey, Sexy Beast. Shows: Downton Abbey, Bill Maher, The Wire, Sopranos, Treme, 6 Feet Under, Deadwood, Hardball, Rachel Maddow, Boardwalk Empire, Making it in America, Girls, VEEP.

Books: Reading Now: Philip Dick "Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep?", "How Doctors Think", and "The Emperor of all Maladies--A Biography of Cancer". Hemingway "Islands in the Stream", Faulkner "The Sanctuary, Kesey "Sometimes A Great Notion" & "One Who Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest", Bellow "Humboldt's Gift", Singer "Shosha", Warren: "All the Kings Men".

Websites: NYTimes, The Hill, Wapo, Huffington Post, Politico (yes I'm liberal).

I am a Broadway musical nut who listens mostly to Stephen Sondheim musicals (Company, Sweeney Todd, Follies, Merrily We Roll Along, etc.). Regarding other music, I like the The Grateful Dead, Weather Report, Neville Bros, Lauren Hill, the Fugees, The Meters, James Taylor, CSN, Cream, Stevie Wonder, Annie Lennox, Herbie Hancock, Alison Krauss, Christian Scott, Tal Wilkenfeld, Sarah Vaughn, Copeland, Bernstein, Ravel, Stravinsky, Vivaldi, Respighi, Debussy and of course, Joni Mitchell, who got me through high school intact.
The six things I could never do without
Spending time with my daughter, seafood, New Orleans Jazz Fest, Lake Superior, LEARNING and ROMANCE!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I'm so different from other men, politics, the world we live in, medicine, how I can have more fun, traveling, my new car (awesome), my clients, the great feeling I get from helping people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually, but not always, at home decompressing from a tough week at the office. I'd rather be with a woman dancing at Lee's Liquor Lounge. Or, kissing (I'm a great kisser). But, mostly, I'm at home watching PBS and dreaming about what might have been...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 49–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You find me intriguing and aren't a Republican.