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honeyandcloves

57 Albany, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 46–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Buddhism
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, French (Okay), Spanish (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm afraid I sometimes get in a bit over my head, allowing my imagination to lead when my reason might object. That's why I have a semi-bi-coastal life, meaning a 180-year old house (no plumbing or electricity) in the Champlain Valley of NY that spoke to me from behind a veil of trees and weeds. I spend a few weeks to a few months there summers, figuring out what do next. Last summer it was repairing the sheathing and siding. I've learned a few things about slinging a hammer, but I've sworn off table saws...
On the other hand, I'm a big reader and I write stories sometimes, mostly true.
I'm attracted to warm-hearted intellectuals, gay-seeming straight men, and wry humor, preferably in combination. I'm an ENFP, which means I'm an introverted extrovert. But these days, I've been pretty introverted. Although I've dipped my toe into OKCupid over the past several years, I've dated only sporadically. I'm looking for someone unusual I guess. I'll try to describe that more fully when I can figure it out myself.
What I’m doing with my life
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I finished grad school in May and will finish my final coursework to be certified to teach English to speakers of other languages this spring. I'm not sure yet how I will translate that into a new career. I'm thinking about everything from community college teaching to overseas work or even boarding schools. But for the time being, I'll probably do substitute teaching where and when I can get it.
I have a curatorial project that's ongoing which will translate into a museum exhibit in the next year or so. Once that's complete, I'll be freed up to consider my options, especially living abroad for awhile, which is high on my list of desires.
I've been working on my house here in the Bay Area a bit (in case I decide to sell) and I'm also very slowly restoring that 19th century house in the Adirondacks (upstate NY). I dream of having a place for family and friends to gather during the summers for canoe trips, hikes, visits to nearby Montreal, horseshoes and campfires.
Community and companionship are a bit lacking in my life right now because most of what I do, I do alone. Which has made me a bit of an introvert I think. A companion would really be a breath of fresh air.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at talking to people and representing them fairly when I write about them. I'm an enchanting conversationalist and I'm good at taking the back roads. I like to find unlikely solutions and cool objects and if you want to know something, I'll happily do the research. I can cook up a meal out of nothing and do it quickly. I can get into and out of a parking space in the same amount of time it takes lots of people to put their key into the ignition.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably whatever expression's on my face. That, and my curls.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read all the time, though sometimes I get sucked into compulsively watching a series on Netflix that takes all my attention. Most recent of these was The Killing. I loved the way it developed the butterfly effect, though the ending was a bit anticlimactic. Endings are often sudden though; once something becomes obvious, it's just obvious.
Right now I'm reading Krakatoa, learning about the development of the spice trade and the rumble that ushered in globalism. I love the sort of non-fiction that gives me a glimpse into a time before something we now take for granted was known. An example would be Dava Sobel's Longitude or a book I once read about the time before centralized timekeeping. I'm also buried in books about early anthropology and 19th century journalism, theosophy, and American Indians.
Recent TV: The Killing, Deadwood, Lie to Me, Dexter, and Downton Abbey.
Music: I've been using Pandora stations more than my own music library. I have Bebel Gilberto, Bowerbirds, Traditional Blues, Cab Calloway, Antonin Dvorak, Glen Hansard, Sean Hayes, Carla Bruni, Cole Porter, Van Morrison, Iron & Wine, Joanna Newsom… you get the idea perhaps?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Vision
Connection
Affection
Reflection
Inspiration
Hot Baths
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm thinking a lot about how history is constructed, who or what got trampled or is left unremembered.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The idea of having my belly button poked is as appealing as having my eyeball poked.
You should message me if
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If you're smart and warm and offbeat, even goofy, with a knack for the English language and possibly introverted, don't be shy. I'd love to meet someone handy and artistic who can teach me a thing or two or someone sporty and fun who'd enjoy taking me and my dog on adventures.