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53 Menomonee Falls, WI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:19am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Used up
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Smart, fun, kind, gentle, passionate, vibrant lover of life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Keeping busy. Seeking joy always. Adjusting to the nest emptying. Wondering why love, the most powerful force in the universe, is so scarce and elusive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scrabble. I'm an expert-level tournament player. I've beaten several World Champions.

I'm the only player in Southeast Wisconsin to ever score 700+ points in a club or tournament game.

To see the annotated game, go to

Click the "Forward" button to follow turn by turn.

I'm also pretty good at disc golf. And telling long stories. And racquetball. And backgammon. And many, many other things!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think my eyes and/or smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Word Freak, the Thomas Covenant series, everything by Douglas Adams, many more

Movies: Lord of the Rings, Birdman, Boyhood, Hugo, The Princess Bride, Brazil, anything written by Charlie Kaufman, All That Jazz, Full Metal Jacket, Harold and Maude, Memento, many more

TV: The Walking Dead, 30 Rock, The Office, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, New Girl, Rachel Maddow, Idol, Fringe, Lost, Weeds, South Park, Family Guy, Robot Chicken. Favorite series ever were Breaking Bad and Six Feet Under

Music: Beatles, Who, Zep, Pink Floyd, Stones, Supertramp, Yes, Zappa, Kansas, Melissa Etheridge, Indigo Girls, Springsteen, DMB, Stevie Ray Vaughn, The Book of Mormon soundtrack, much more. Pretty eclectic tastes

Food: Chinese, Mexican, meat & potatoes. I'm easy to please.

Favorite line of dialog from an unexpected source (namely, a zombie videogame): "Zombie or sapiosexual--either way: Brains, YUM!"

I went to Chicago with my son to see "The Book of Mormon", which we both absolutely loved. He was the only teenager we saw in the entire theater. Standing in the line outside the theater, I make that observation and say "that either makes me the best dad ever, or the worst!" Immediately, he and several eavesdroppers turn to me and exclaim in unison: "Best!!"

We saw it again in Milwaukee recently. We noticed 2 other kids his age. I have competition for the best/worst dad ever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter, time with my son, word games, Packers football, diet Dew, music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe and Everything.



How technology and the internet have transformed dating. Mostly for the worse.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll show you mine if you show me yours
You should message me if
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You're smart, fun, and emotionally stable and available.

You prefer substance over style.

You know that love is, in the end, all that matters.

You actually clicked through and played along.