After reading this section all the way through, you think it's
worth our time to explore our potential.
Here, in a nut shell (Where did this expression come from?) is what
and who I'm looking for and a glimpse of who I am.
I believe it's possible for two kindred spirits to connect,
challenge one another intellectually, enjoy one another physically,
nurture one another creatively and emotionally and develop a
fantastic sexual rapport, all while maintaining separate selves and
parallel lives. I’m looking for inter-dependent, not
I want to laugh my ass off for hours with someone. I want to feel
my heart skip a beat when I see them and I want for us to not be
able to keep our hands off of each other as if we were a pair of
teenagers who have just discovered how good it feels to touch and
be touched. I want someone who'll laugh as hard as I do when
someone tells us, "Get a room!" I want to talk for hours about
everything and nothing. I want to smile when, in the middle of the
day, I think of something she said. I want to be someone's safe
harbor and have someone be mine. I don't want this feeling to go
away in a year or two. I want to go haring off on wild adventures
at the drop of a hat and believe that we'll be talking about them
with smiles on our wrinkled faces, maybe holding hands on a deck
facing the sunset, when we're old. I long to look forward to
growing old with a specific someone. I want to know there is one
person on Earth I can absolutely count on and to be that someone
for them. I've just about given up on "happily ever after," but
"pretty darn content, most of the time" has a nice ring to
I'm looking for a best friend, confidant, partner in adventure and
lover all rolled into one. The woman I'm looking for values
honesty. She is a passionate soul with a life rich in experience.
She’s willing to invest energy in creating a safe and satisfying
romance. The joy felt during courtship and the reward of a mutual
seduction...the dance of intimacy...the give and take of power, and
the possibility of some shared adventures are all welcome.
Possessiveness and suffocating enmeshment are not."Hold on loosely,
but don't let go."
Hopefully, over time and without the pressure of expectations it
will ripen into a life-long love.
A little about me—I’m: reasonably intelligent; occasionally funny;
usually reliable; much more of a doer than a watcher. I’m seldom
precisely punctual, but usually pretty close; and a highly-skilled,
enthusiastically uninhibited, and considerate lover who knows how
to touch the most sexually sensitive spot you have--the one between
ears. (I pay attention to my lover's body showing me what it craves
and how to satiate that craving.) Faced with an either/or choice,
I’ll usually opt for both/and. I try to live by the Platinum Rule,
“Do unto others as they would have you do unto them.” I laugh at
people's quirks and idiosyncrasies instead of getting irritated by
them. I appreciate life's absurdities and ironies. I love to laugh,
especially at myself. My cooking will give you tongue-gasms. I can
speak about an unusually large number of subjects without sounding
like I don't know what I'm talking about and I'm really good at
seeing the answers to other people's problems. I have strong hands
and a willing heart. In other words I'm not totally boring.
If what I've said here echoed in your heart, mind and loins quit
wasting time! Get back to me!
If not, good luck finding just who/what you're looking for.