hopeforthebest4u
61 West Hartford, CT
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My self-summary
Hi i would summarize myself as a nice guy who is always trying to improve, with the philosophy that you never get a day back so try to make the most of it. I think everyone has something to offer and i can learn from anyone. I'm not out to dominate use or abuse anyone, i'm looking to have a positive experience and share a laugh or two. I am always trying to get a little bit more organized and find another ounce of energy. I really enjoy my kids, (twin boys), my friends, sports, beaches especially in the caribean or south carolina a fun conversation and quiet moments with a special someone. I have a lot of curiosity about you, what you think about and what makes you laugh and what you enjoy doing.You should know i believe you get what you give so if we get to be in a relationship together, I will give it my best shot, have infinite patience, but I will expect there to be mutual respect. I will be your rock, but not your door mat., i will be very supportive, please don't try to take it out on me. I am looking for some kind or partnership, not 50 50 everyday, just in general. Thanks for reading, good luck if i don't hear from you.
What I’m doing with my life
im co parenting two high school boys and trying to make the most out of a weekend, for example, saw a hockey game friday nite, tail gaited and uconn football sat afternoon, saw peter gabriel sat night, exercising and doing house work on sunday, trying to meet you and get ready for the week ahead.
I’m really good at
not letting the small things bother me, but trying to appreciate what life has to offer small and large. If you become angry at me over a small thing i will try very hard to reason with you as to why its a small thing and seek compromise, I am not a yeller who uses anger as a tool or club to manipulate you into winning.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very positive and thoughtful. i like to laugh, make other people laugh and think. I am easy going, but like enthusiam and curiosity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
meet joe black, midnight in paris, any theatre production is good, they facinate me. most all food, hibachi, mexican, ty, eastern mediteranean, classic steak, etc. All kinds of music the more you like the better off you are. I can like a song because of the melody, the beat, the lyrics or the voice. i try to read ny times-
i know its not the same as a book, if you want to have a laugh
look up mikeluv83, in LA, it would appear that after he visited my profie there is a heck of a coincidence in our profiles, i guess i should be flattered, but really, just check it out and i'm curious what you think about it, thx for checking me out, i just had to add this comment after asking myself why would a guy from the west coast be reading my profile.
The six things I could never do without
my kiddos, any beach on a beautiful summer's day, or better yet in the carribean any time of year, watching a movie with you on a rainy sunday afternoon, while having a great glass of wine and laughs, a good strong cup of coffee, whether first thing in the morning or after a great meal with a dessert of white chocolate moose, spell check, my 2 yellow labs or dogs in general, going for a run or power walk, its a great recharge.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
trying to get the most stuff done today, my future and the kiddo's future
On a typical Friday night I am
no such thing, some weeks i am happy to have made it through and just recharging, others find me out and about, it all depends on what led up to it i guess.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i am ok with being by myself, but i think its better to share stuff with that special someone.
You should message me if
you want to feel good, i am a very positive person, i am sure you have something to offer, whether we make the right connection or not i appreciate your time in checking me out.
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