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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 25
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'd rather you figure that one out for me
What I’m doing with my life
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Fulfilling my passion, dream and purpose - being a jazz guitarist in New York. Playing, composing, teaching, the whole package. It's a good feeling to know what I want. Meeting people from in NY has taught me to not take that for granted.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Writing. Maintaining an inner balance.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i'm tall. i have 3 earrings in my left ear. i'm european.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Infinite Jest, Ulysses, The Crying of Lot 49, The Book of Embraces, Straight Life, Franz Kafka, Herman Hesse, Leo Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Maxim Gorky, Daniil Kharms, Gogol, John Steinbeck, Paul Auster, Dylan Thomas, Graham Greene, Arthur Miller, Isaac Asimov, Michel Houellebecq, Milan Kundera, John Cage, Arthur Schopenhauer, Plato, Meister Eckart, Martin Heidegger, Jean-Paul Sartre

Movies: everything by Kurosawa, Wong Kar Wai, Lynch, Cronenberg, Solondz, Teshigahara, Herzog, Fassbinder, Schlöndorff, von Trier

Food: vegetarian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
long solitary walks
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music. complexity and simplicity. social injustice. how we create ethical norms.
why so many girls on here answer this question with 'my next meal'
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hopefully NOT on OkCupid.... no, seriously, i might be playing at a club. if not - hanging out at a bar with friend(s), checking out a concert, watching a movie at home...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sometimes I feel like I change my looks too often... it might be any combination of the following: glasses, no glasses, clean shaven, beard, goatee, hair shaved short, longish hair, hat, no hat. I get "I didn't recognize you at first" way to often. Bad for a career in music ;-)

I'm the son of a catholic priest.
I was bitten by a monkey when I was 8.
I had a crush on Pippi Longstocking around the same age.
I like you.
You should message me if
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you are curious and eager to share and listen.