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54 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–58
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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Black, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A profile should reflect who you are, it's like writing a resume for love,
what you put in it, is what you get,
how you are able to describe your passions, and wants, is what you get in life!

I want to enjoy life again, to have someone in my life, that really wants to live,
someone, who is willing to listen to what I have to share, and I am willing to listen to how
we got to this spot (we can laugh about this later)

Humor, faithful, bohemian,eclectic, serious,
Kind, generous, patience, open, quiet, opinionated, truthful
Aware, common-sense, easy on the eyes(my Father use to say), romantic, different/unique,

I want to dance, even if it is just the two of us and an Ipod

I am extremely faithful and fun, and I want a chance to live again.
I am passionate about life, and when I believe, I believe with my whole heart
I don't look my age, and I don't act my age....
I have taken great care of myself, and I would hope that you have done the same
I believe in being healthy, eating, walking, supplements and beer drinking, (oops, how did that get in there)

I AM STARTING OVER, My greatest fault, is that I stayed too long at the dance. I gave chances over and over, when I should have cut my losses.
I believe in birthdays(what I want, not what is just laying around), christmas, valentine day, and everyday, with the right person, the person, I can close my eyes and are in my dreams, as a celebrations, I want to celebrate meeting the right person, and just feeling alive again, and making that person feel special ! I give alot, and will share the world, but not lopsidedly anymore
(if you are a non-participant, in these holidays, or just lazy when it comes to someone else's feelings, please do not contact, been there done that)

I have saved myself for this part of my life, for my HAPPINESS!
Always try 1 new thing a week, REALLY, eat, try, read, explore, life is too short, to not experiment, variety opens the mind.

My father instilled in me 3 virtues, LOYALTY, HONOR AND INTEGRITY

I am a caregiver (I have taken care of people who have had diabetes, heart problems, high blood pressure, I am not a doctor, but I understand what life throws at us, when we are not looking). I am a leader Olivia Pope (I prefer to be a best second-mate like Gilligan, Radar, 99, Connie – law and order, Addie - NCIS) and a soldier (St. Michael or Don Quixote)

I am not looking for one night stands, false promises, or selfish conceited men nor peter pans or curmudgeons.
Brooding or Games are NOT allowed
Brooding ( is not handsome) nor Games (are not cute)
CRUDENESS, OR rudeness, are NOT allowed
(If it something you could not say to your mom, don't start out saying it to me, it is not appreciated, nor respond-able)
If you have been so burned, that you are not willing to open up and trust,
don't dump all your baggage on me, I am good, but I am tired of being the martyr for other people self imposed suffering
I am a woman of my word, wanting to share is a part of my makeup, sharing my heart is only an option with a REAL person

I am looking for some one with a intelligent, solid, a kind heart with empathy, that will APPRECIATE a good, open-minded, fun loving woman, with a little baggage, that I will explain in person, not a deal breaker, but an interesting honest life laugh. I am looking for someone who is strong, and knows what they want and why. Considerate, who doesn't take more than they are willing to give.

I will be honest with you too, no games, no using. I just want happiness for the rest of my life, I would like to smile again.
I am a realist, and I am visual, I am looking for someone, who thinks out of the box and not afraid to walk hand in hand with me

I love backgammon, darts/301, and euchre, I love second-hand stores and street fairs, I love quiet walks with a bottle of wine, I love music from the 70's and touch football, with a group of friends, I crave adventure, and cherish sitting on the sofa with someone, I WANT NO MORE STRESS IN MY LIFE

If it doesn't work, at least you know what you don't want, :)
Users and abusers will be cursed by Karma

THINGS I LIKE.....Easy listening music, making jewelry, car rides, jazz at night, country music...anything from Ambroisa, James Taylor, Kansas, Toto, Phil Collins, Toby K, or Rascal Flatts,James Ingram, Lionel Richie, Backgammon, Walking near water, beer tasting, Burn Notice, Scandal, NCIS, Vikings, Law and Order, and many SciFi movies. The color Green, and Blue. Dr. Who

Please don't just say "HI" without telling me why you are interested in me
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing everything
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making things work
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Eyes,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My health
My birds
Peace of mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
when I get to know you better, I will open up..........
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are human,
not just experimenting
have self confidence
you really want to meet, not just test the waters