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hot_Renaissance

64 M San Mateo, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:14pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I grew up in a little town in Essex County, New Jersey - the 3rd generation to do so - and spent the best summers of my life at the shore. I worked my way through college playing the drums at clubs along the board walks then bummed around the country with my dog for a couple of years and ended up in Phoenix selling college textbooks. Moved to the Bay Area in '81 and left publishing after catching the high tech fever. Was married for 20 years and have a son at Cal Poly, SLO.

I've been told I'm a nice guy which, of course, is the kiss of death.
What I’m doing with my life
“Do not fear death... only the unlived life.
You don't have to live forever;
You just have to live.” (Natalie Babbitt)

I am trying to accomplish that by being a good father as well as being active with some environmental issues and looking for ways to better impact peoples lives. I've done well and it's time to give back.

Being active physically and mentally is a priority for me. I read quite a bit, hang out with folks who push me intellectually, watch PBS and Rachel as well as listen to KQED.
I’m really good at
listening, analyzing, deciding and then keeping my mouth shut.
Well . . . maybe the first three.
being there when the going gets tough.
Giving and receiving massages, particularly the latter.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My reading preferences change often and I can discern no pattern worth entering here. I do like sharing and discussing whatever it is with others. Lately movies disappoint more often than please. Musically I try to have an open mind - a real challenge for quite a while now - but that which makes my feet and heart move tends to rule.
Food tastes are eclectic.
The six things I could never do without
My son
My health
My friends
Count Basie, Oscar Peterson, Jazz At Filoli . . .
Books
The ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How best to make a difference in this world and with whom.
My son.
Sex.
Dark Matter.
Politics.

“Everything is determined…by forces over which we have no control. It is determined for the insect as well as for the star. Human beings, vegetables, or cosmic dust—we all dance to a mysterious tune, intoned in the distance by an invisible piper.”
—Albert Einstein
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 57–64
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
if any of the above strikes your fancy.