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33 / F / Bisexual / Single
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 12:28pm
- 5′ 3″ (1.60m)
- Body Type
- Strictly other
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Entertainment / Media
- Rather not say
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Likes cats
- English (Fluently)
I do, however, ultimately want a serious-cohabiting partner to have babies and a strong nonmonogamous commitment with (ie, we can focus on each other & fully commit to coparenting, without minding if the other has lots of fun with other people too -- I can't be the only person this appeals to!), and hope that one of the people I start dating in the next few months (or someone I'm already seeing) can turn out to be that person. If I meet a lot of friends and lovers along the way, I'm happy with that.
I strike a fabulous balance between fun and responsibility. My work is a great source of joy. I can be intense and intimidating, and it's absolutely essential that the people I date seriously not be easily intimidated, intellectually or socially. I like to have crushes on people before we kiss. I am a feminist, and if you think that means I need to specify that I like men, you have a very different perspective on feminism than I do.
I have been learning aerial fabrics and hope to perform for friends later this year. I just started indoor climbing and do it about once a month and am always looking for climbing partners, but probably not ones who are trying to date me (been down that road... no good!)
I believe in magic because it's unfair for atheists not to benefit from the spiritual placebo effect everyone else gets.
Movies: Fight Club, Henry and June, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Labyrinth, Mulholland Drive, Blade Runner, Cold Comfort Farm, almost any Jane Austen adaptation.
Shows: The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Arrested Development, New Girl, The Mindy Project, Parks & Recreation, Twin Peaks, Archer. Mystery shows are my guilty pleasure background watching.
Music: Lana Del Rey, Florence + the Machine, The Cure, IAMX, The Decemberists, Metric, CHVRCHES, Crass, Rome, Neko Case, Interpol, iamamiwhoami. Bands I've played with: Abney Park, Rasputina, Voltaire, Amanda Palmer, Stripmall Architecture, Vernian Process, HUMANWINE, MC Frontalot, Jill Tracy...
Food: must be gluten-free, and I especially like Indian and Thai.
- Guys and girls who like bi girls
- Ages 28–42
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
I get a lot of messages from idiots. I might miss your message even if you're not an idiot. I will definitely not respond to anyone with less than an 80% match. I am adamant that I do not owe anyone a response if they don't knock my socks off in every possible way. I don't enjoy offending people, but I don't want to lead anyone on.
I have no expectation that any specific person I date must become a serious partner, but since a serious partner is what I'm looking for, I have zero interest in anyone for whom a serious partnership (possibly with children) is totally off the table.
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