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hot_cellist

32 / F / Bisexual / Single

San Francisco, California

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:49am
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
The last couple years of my life have been professional success and personal disaster. I've been dating a lot this year but have recently realized I need to be more systematic in my approach if I actually want a serious partner. Does that mean less romantic? Probably.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a full-time singer-cellist-producer. I play lots of steampunk conventions. I love my life but I am way too busy to date seriously... or unseriously. But I am happier when I have a partner, so I want to use the internet to find me one, even though I know that doesn't actually work.
I’m really good at
Seeing the positive in crappy situations. Keeping a level head. Flirting. Running kickstarter campaigns. Flying with an electric cello and a 52-lb suitcase.
The first things people usually notice about me
My loud voice (literally and metaphorically)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: China Miéville, Margaret Atwood, Charles Stross, Zora Neale Hurston, Kurt Vonnegut, Jane Austen, Susan McClary (feminist music theory). Movies: Fight Club, Henry and June, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Mulholland Drive, Blade Runner, Cold Comfort Farm, almost any Jane Austen adaptation. Shows: New Girl, Parks & Recreation, Twin Peaks, The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Arrested Development. Music: Lana Del Rey, Florence + the Machine, IAMX, Neko Case, Interpol, iamamiwhoami. Food: must be gluten-free, and I especially like Indian and Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Autonomy, inspiration, sustenance, heartbreak, beauty, challenge
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where I'm playing next, songs I'm working on...
On a typical Friday night I am
Performing for 20-400 people at a show or convention. Weekends are for making money. On rare Fridays I'm in town I'll be at Dark Shadows or Witching Hour at the Cat Club, gothdancing for hours.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 28–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you know me through other channels, write me through other channels.

I get a lot of messages from idiots. I might miss your message even if you're not an idiot. I will definitely not respond to anyone with less than an 80% match.

If you know what I'm talking about when I say I wrote a pretty sweet mensuration canon generator in LisP for my college AI and Music class, we can hang. (also necessary: you forgive me for forgetting how to code.)