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34 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–48
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:09pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a full-time singer-cellist-producer.
I’m really good at
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Making the best out of difficult situations. Keeping a level head. Flirting. Gradually becoming less awful at self-promotion. Flying with an electric cello and a 52-lb suitcase.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My loud voice (literally and metaphorically)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: China Miéville, Margaret Atwood, Charles Stross, Zora Neale Hurston, Kurt Vonnegut, Jane Austen, Susan McClary (feminist music theory).

Movies: Fight Club, Henry and June, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Labyrinth, Mulholland Drive, Blade Runner, Cold Comfort Farm, almost any Jane Austen adaptation.

Shows: The Daily Show, Colbert Report, Arrested Development, New Girl, The Mindy Project, Parks & Recreation, Twin Peaks, Archer. Mystery shows are my guilty pleasure background watching.

Music: Lana Del Rey, Florence + the Machine, The Cure, IAMX, The Decemberists, Metric, CHVRCHES, Crass, Rome, Neko Case, Interpol, iamamiwhoami. Bands I've played with: Abney Park, Rasputina, Voltaire, Amanda Palmer, Stripmall Architecture, Vernian Process, HUMANWINE, MC Frontalot, Jill Tracy...

Food: must be gluten-free, and I especially like Indian and Thai.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Autonomy, inspiration, sustenance, heartbreak, beauty, challenge
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the next phase of my wondrous life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Performing for 20-400 people at a show or convention. Or doing the introvert trick of finding one person at a party to take aside and have a deep, unfiltered conversation with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am frightfully plain-looking without makeup.
You should message me if
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You want to meet me and are ridiculously hot and ridiculously smart and doing your damnedest not to be an asshole.