But I guess the show is over. Like the old magic and circus which is not anymore popular because Disneyland is already there. I am now about to get married. During those times that I was looking for random girls here, someone - One Woman - found me. And she changed everything. I guess I am so lucky. Yes, I am. She knocked me off my feet, and showed me that life is beautiful. And I am glad that she did. She showed me that I am really not one of the "general guys" out there that I used to be, but a REAL MAN who does not look for just company, pleasure, sex, girlfriend per se, text friend, or whatever you call it. But a REAL MAN who is generous, gentleman, faithful, loyal, funny, smart, spontaneous, great - A REAL MAN. She showed me who really I am. And I will thank her forever for that.
I may not found her in this site. But to all the guys and girls out there who are still looking for their luck here, don't give up. But please, for those guys be a REAL MAN. Let's face the truth and don't be hypocrite, and admit that we are looking for great partners or I might say "perfect" ones. But in the process of doing so we don't need to run on other girls' lives and leave them alone after, just like a hit-and-run. Let's show the world that there are still old-fashioned gentlemen remaining in the men's club after all.
And for the girls, don't lose hope. But be very careful. Look for guys who laughs with you when you're happy, and cries with you when you're sad. Guys who can tell you what Luther Vandross describes in the chorus of his song "I'd Rather". A real man, not a real guy.
Everyone deserves someone "perfect". As I have said in my blog, "There is no such thing as perfect relationship. But there is always a perfect someone for us at a perfect time". That someone will share life with you regardless of the odds. Someone who will be strong enough to battle everything. Be brave enough to fight everything. NOT ALL ALONE, BUT TOGETHER WITH YOU.
And once that someone crash into your life, don't forget to say "I Love You", "Thank You", "I'm Sorry". Three little words which always makes the difference. And keep a very good and sensible conversation all the time. Treat him/her as your wife/husband, your girl/man, your bestfriend, your lover, your baby, your sister/brother, your sweetheart, your crush, your pornstar babe, your honey, your everything.
Lastly, "ADULTERY HAPPENS WHEN YOU START LOOKING FOR WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE...BUT FAITHFULNESS HAPPENS WHEN YOU START THANKING GOD FOR WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE."