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hotmess47

26 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Turkish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Financially privileged cis white male reporting in.

My colleagues say I'm sassy.

I introspect a lot.
What I’m doing with my life
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blues dance
origami
friends

Weekdays:
Product managers receive business interests from clients and market research and translate them into product ideas. I take these ideas and make them real. I do this by managing my colleague's work assignments, planning out release cycles, and building things in Java. In return, I am compensated with money and verbal praise. #corpLyfe
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I don't like this question because it's reminiscent of job interview questions.

Things I'm paid to be good at:
Building complex systems that meet business requirements
Assessing other people's abilities and potential, using the power of empathy
Communicating
Creatively building things so that future developers will have an easy time modifying them

Things I'm not paid to be good at:
skiing
riding bicycles and motorcycles.
being sensitive and kind
i'm okay at drawing and dancing
The first things people usually notice about me
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At a subway station, out of nowhere, a stranger said "Nice hair!" and then he was gone forever. I felt so beautiful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some recent favorite books (as of, like, 2011, so maybe I should get rid of this? let me know if you even read this section):
Infinite Jest by David Foster Wallace
It's about addiction, consumerism, love. It's absolutely filled with humanity. I think he at least partially hated his readers. I'm comforted by his raw self hatred which spills all over his writing.

Kafka at the Shore by Haruki Murakami
I don't understand this book very well, and I need to read it again.

Movies: The Piano, The Prestige, Disney's Aladdin
Also, just because everyone loves Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind doesn't mean I can't love it too.

TV: Star Trek: TNG and The Wire

Music: Ratatat, Parov Stelar, many others of the electro-swing / electronic / some hip hop influenced / some industrial influenced variety.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've learned to do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Understanding how systems of people have become the massive, burgeoning forces that they are today. How I, as a part of various subcultures, can navigate and alter those systems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I used to go to Friday Night Blues pretty regularly, now it's a toss up.
recent interest: exploring abandoned places.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make wishes at 11:11 as a way of affirming my goals.
You should message me if
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you think that we might get along.

I don't do serial monogamy anymore. I'm very happy with this decision.