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41 / M / Straight / Single
Los Angeles, California
His journal posts
Sep 17, 2009
Men: Not So Good At 'Hints'. Can't you just SAY it?
Advice Please: At what point of not hearing back from a woman is
it obvious she is not interested?
-After she doesn't reply to an email once
-If she gives short, unrevealing answers
-If she says she enjoys conversing, so I send a real email address, and never hear from her again
Is she really 'too busy'? Or is it just that she wants to
be pursued? (and just what does that mean, can email a form a
At what point does it leave pursuit and become annoying/stalking if she doesn't reply and I've sent a second message? At that point, I'm not interested in pursuing (a black hole void of communication), but I'm left wondering what happened (was it something I said? she seemed interested/interesting, and suddenly disappeared)!
~out on a limb in new territory in fervent pursuit of straight, vulnerable honesty instead of wondering in my head or going "oh well, she didn't message me back, guess that means _____."
Thank you for your clarity!
May 11, 2009