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hotstuffn

51 F Austin, TX

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:21am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am waiting for Godot and that check in the mail.

Honestly, I am so smart and funny and cool and wild and fun that you probably don't have a chance with me, and if you tried, I would likely wear you out with the totality of my Awesomenesshood. But don't let that scare you off. Let my fearsome looks do that for you!

I run the gamut from wild to mild. I try to face the things that scare me so that they scare no more. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. But I keep trying. I don't expect to be fearless, just less controlled by fear.

I am silly, shyly outgoing, kind to children, dogs and idiots (which really helps at my job), not all about having the new toys, at least, not the same toys everyone else has. Take me to a feed or home improvement store and my imagination goes wild and I may get giggly.

I am in the market for a new best friend. Or just new friends in general at this point. Being a hermit is not good for one's social life.

I am exploring the great wide world for all the things that may have passed me by unnotice in the previous existances. I have a child whom I of course adore, as he is the most brilliant, sweetest, most adorable boy ever to be born. Well, at least born to me. I actually usually get along with my ex when he is not being annoying, and we have joint custody. I love movies, theater, music. I sing, I do it well, and I love it. Somewhat eclectic yet generally fairly mainstream. I have a vast amount of trivial and probably completely useless knowlege that nevertheless occasionally comes in handy. I like to go out and do things sometimes, but am perfectly happy to stay at home. In fact, it can be difficult to get me to leave it. I am good at fixing things. I daydream a lot. I am overly sensitive, sentimental, tenderhearted, and if you screw me over I will hurt you. Somehow, someday, someway...(yeh, right). But if you are honest, and it hurts, I can handle that. If you go by the Myers Briggs personality profile I am a perfect INFP.

I am ok with dating. I am open to only friendships as well. I could use some more friends. I really should get out more.

I am a terrible flirt, but I am trying to get better.

If I write you, that means something caught my eye on your profile. Maybe funny (usually, I do have an odd sense of humor) or interesting (sometimes). Doesn't mean I want to date you and marry and have your babies. I am past that. I will (probably) not stalk you. I've gotten to the point that I really just write the notes for my own edification. So if you ignore them that's just fine by me. If you respond, it's a pleasant suprise. Yes, I do enjoy the occasional suprise.

I am humorous, introspective, and loopy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Stil trying to find my place in the grownup world. Rebuilding or restoring broken bits. Finding the pieces that I lost or hid away in self defense. Loving it.
I have been making some changes. I am working on getting in better shape, lost a bit of weight already and want to keep at it. Anyone want to help me get started doing yoga? I enjoy hitting Barton Springs, usually with my kid in tow, although he like the warmer but majorly over-clorinated public pools. They give me a headache, but willl do in a pinch.

I am an ordained Pastafarian minister. With a little paperwork I could legitimately perform marriages. I prefer to have them illegitimate, however, it saves the hassle and cost of divorce. Trust me on that one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
more things than I tend to think I am.

Singing, laughing, reading, loving, being mommy.

I have been told I am a pretty good writer too, but that is not my personal opinion, although I do sometimes like it and blog occasionally on another site or 2.

Being perverse. And a pervert too.

I have a vast knowlege of useless trivia, especially movie trivia. Want to play Trivial Pursuit? You can't get much more trivial than me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a lot of dimples and a big smile. Aside from the fact I am fat, that is. Excuse me, not fat, super Rubanesque! I clean up pretty nice. ! But usually, what people mention to me is the dimples. Its almost like having a sign on my face that says Poke Here.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Jane Eyre, The Princess Bride, Weaveworld and other books by Clive Barker, fantasy such as Anne McCaffrey, Scifi-Heinlein, Norton, Nivins, , Detective novels The Cat Who series, procedurals, Sue Grafton, whatever strikes my fancy at the moment movies-loved Thank you for Smoking, LOR, Mel Brooks films. Mel Brooks would make god laugh. If he/she/it existed at least. I may live with High Anxiety, and want to throw Space Ball at Twelve Chairs, but I try to remember as I ride on my Blazing Saddles that its always Springtime for Hitler somewhere. Ray Harryhausen. Kevin Smith. Horror movies, especially old cheezy ones. Love Coctou's Beauty and the Beast, suprises me every time I see it that it is B and W. Music, pretty much adult contemporary stuff, tho I have found I really like Pink. Also love Train, Janice Ian, Melanie, Cyndie Lauper, 80's stuff, hair bands and all. Oldies, I mean even really oldies from the thirties and forties, showtunes, some opera, but more operetta Food-I like it, lots of it, but raw fish is not my style
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my son, humor, my brain, my voice, family (be it born into or the one I make) hope and dreams.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
too much internal crap, how to use ordinary objects as kinky toys, sex, love, what do I want to be when and if I grow up, how to get rid of my baggage now that airlines charge per pound, what kind of job can I get thats better than what I got, whats for dinner? And of course how to make a great life for my son.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
happy I dont have to hang out in bars for entertainment.

Lately I have been hanging around naked in bed. Its awesome!

Around Halloween I am out and about, trying the scare the crap out of paying customers at Scare for a Cure. I like it so much I do it for free. I am just one of many sick and twisted people trying to save the boobies, one scream at a time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was madly in love with Wolverine long before they cast Hugh Jackman in the role. But I will not complain about the casting, even if he is about a foot too tall.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think we might have fun together. Or if you think I might be interesting. Especially if you think I am hot. Or if you just have nothing better to do and think I might be fun to talk to BTW, if you are a few years one way or the other from my age group, I will not bite your head off if you write me, its just a guideline. But really, you twenty-somethings are generally way out of my comfort zone.