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houston57

52 / M / straight / Available

Forest City, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Looking For
Casual sex
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Very often
Drugs
Often
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Kids
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Married, gay, and A Player.

My Self-Summary

I am a stable, educated man who is recently out of a long term relationship, who wishes to find a real lady to share my life with. I enjoy music, cooking, traveling, fishing, flying kites, and lots of other activities. I am half-retired, but when I am called to work, I try to pick jobs near the ocean, upon whose beach I love to stroll on under the stars. It is so good for the soul! I am a graduate of the University of Texas at Austin. I hold a BA in English, with a minor in Music Ed., and an AS in electronics. That, with the addition of 50 cents, will buy me a Little Debbie at the local food mart, for my chosen profession utilizes none of these degrees. It was fun though, Austin rocks! I like to play like I'm single and date any dumb-ass who answers my request.

What I’m doing with my life

I travel frequently with my work, so I am able to see first-hand the many cultures and positive aspects within this great country of ours. I enjoy the luxury of spontaneity, and look forward to the pleasant surprises that luxury affords.I cheat on my wife ,every chance I get ,to compensate my short man syndrome.

I’m really good at

Cooking, writing, turning a phrase, flying a kite, jumping out of airplanes (with a parachute, of course), judging character and lying.

The first things people usually notice about me

My manners...I was raised in South Texas, and was taught as a youngster to treat all people with the utmost dignity, and respect, until it is proven that is not deserved. I am a yes maam, no maam kind of guy. I open doors for ladies, and help seat them each and every time. I've been told that this behavior can actually be annoying sometimes, but it's how I was raised, and it's the proper thing to do, and you'd just have to get used to it, and being lied to.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love all types of food, but I suppose my favorite would be good old cajun cooking. I was raised in that part of the country, and it's just a taste of home...peppers and all! I am a musician, therefor I enjoy all types of music, if performed well. No rap though, it harms my delicate sensibilities. Movies...I am a big Quentin Tarantino fan. Movies by Martin Scorsese. Ron Howard is moving up there too, in my opinion.Gay Porn rocks!!!!!!

The six things I could never do without

The first would be music....it truly soothes the savage beast.
Secondly...thought provoking conversation.
Third...Opportunities for introspection
Fourth...Quiet times on the water, whether it be the ocean,
or a lazy, shallow stream
Fifth...This is getting tough!..my eyes...I can't imagine life
without being able to enjoy a beautiful sunrise, or
magnificent sunset
Sixth....Strange piece of ass

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My place in the world as a whole. I realize that I am but a mote on a speck in the world as a whole, but I would like to think that I was able to contribute in a positive way; if only to make one person smile a day, maybe it could get passed on.How many desperate people will want to meet me?

On a typical Friday night I am

Quiet times watching an old movie, or playing guitar, maybe writing a song, maybe just hashing out some good old James Taylor tunes.Thinking about more lies to tell my wife and people who want to meet me.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

This is my secret identity, and I'm really a super-hero.....please don't blow my cover! Just blow me.

You should message me if

You should message me if you would like to delve into an intriguing conversation, if you like to laugh, if you like long walks on the beach, under the stars. You should message me if you wanted to be the center of a good man's universe, and the apple of his eye. You should message me if you would like to experience life with new eyes, to enjoy it, and to help me drink it in, while we still have time. Life's too short not to enjoy every minute! It would be nice to share life's adventures, and mysteries with the right special lady or man,I swing both ways.I prefer young boys.