Dear Ladies and Gentlemen of OkC, **
I recently have entered into serious relationships, that I want to see grow. Real love; with amazing men, who fit and surpass all of my desired descriptors. Kind, interesting, funny, attentive; ridiculously smart, open minded and level headed. With the added bonus of being fabulous kissers; which is an important attribute, for which even the very best algorithm cannot test.
I am feeling very lucky with my men. I am really happy. . This love thing is fun, and joyous and terrifying and beautiful, and I feel the need to give it my full heart’s attention. Therefore, as a commitment to myself, and my heart, I have decided to take myself out of the OkC active dating pool.
I wish you all the very best in your search for love. I recognize that you may not be searching for exactly what I was looking for, but I know we are all looking for our version of happiness. I wish happiness for you OkCers.
** (Yes, of course there is a footnote, I could not hold up my nerd credentials without one.) I do not know the formal gender queer address that would correspond with Ladies and Gentleman. Is there one? If not, this seems like an oversight. With all the linguistic debate that we in the allied communities are doing about developing queer-gendered language, we need to come up with a word, for formal occasions.
You will note that in all three of my photos, I am smiling. I smile a lot. My life is mostly pretty fabulous. I have a wonderful family and wonderful friends. I am here to improve the “wonderfulness” of my love life.
I am a fun, witty girl. I am a good conversationalist. I enjoy museums, libraries, music, wine, dancing, story telling and travel. I am a pretty great date.
I am seeking a man to share my next adventure. I am not sure what that new adventure will be. I am searching for someone who does not freak out if we miss a highway exit, or the restaurant lost our reservation. The gentleman I am seeking is calm, and realizes, that while the world is a big, beautiful place, sometimes poop passes. My perfect amore loves to read, learn and try new things. I want a guy with patience and a sense of humor. I am generally a happy optimist; however, I have many high anxiety moments. In these moments, I want someone who is supportive. In return, I shall support his high-anxiety moments, entertain his silly moments, be loyal in his insecure moments and revel in his blissful moments.
I am socially conscious and incredibly active. I volunteer for non-profit organizations and political organizations. This may lead to scheduling frustrations. Fear not, dear one, if it is meant to be, we will meet. I care about the health and sustainability of our planet as well as the people, plants and animals that live on this planet. I have the expectation that any person I spend my precious time with, will care about our world also. I am a bird-watcher. I love to dance and travel. I do yoga and reiki.
I am smart, funny, and kind