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hrmtthrsh

26 / F / Bisexual / Single

Northampton, Massachusetts

Her Details

Last Online
May 12
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Okay), Swahili (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love exploring, working on, and feeling connected to land. Human connections and a sense of community are also very important to me. I value a quiet, peaceful, rural life as well as the conveniences and social benefits of living in a more densely settled area.

I aspire to live a simple life. I want to grow and cook my own food, drive as little as possible, be engaged in my community, and do meaningful work. After much dabbling in different environmentally-related things for about five years, I finally have clarity that I want to be a teacher of some sort. I am planning to go to grad school next fall.

Politically I lean pretty far left and this is important to me. Part of me wishes I was putting myself on the line to shut down a coal plant or tar sands pipeline. I've done this type of work in the past in the past, but it's not as much a part of my life right now.

I love growing food, hiking, playing pick-up soccer, cross-country skiing, cooking and sharing good food with others. I very rarely watch movies and I don't have a TV. I'm not categorically opposed to movie-watching and I do enjoy a movie every once and a while, but it's just not a part of my solo routine.
What I’m doing with my life
Farming and teaching and playing outside. I try to do a little yoga and something active almost every day.
I’m really good at
Being an active, perceptive listener and direct communicator
Being a reliable and consistent friend
Making cards and writing letters (I'll never give up on pen and paper)
Cooking good food for others, but always finding something that is lacking or that I could have done to make it better.
Being critical/analytical in general, but only for the sake of improvement
Carving wooden spoons (but I still need to get a lot better at sharpening knives)
Moving fast on skis and ice skates
Memorizing and organizing things
The card game "SET"
Finding four leaf clovers
The first things people usually notice about me
In summer people notice my chaco sandal tan-lines if I take my chacos off. Or in general they comment that it looks like I've been working outside. Last week I was at a contra dance and people noticed my hands are rough due to having them in the dirt/using them all day every day.
The six things I could never do without
The natural world and all it does to sustain me
Close friends
My bicycle
Tomatoes when they’re in season
Challenges and teachers
My hands
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can spend more time outside
What to cook for dinner that will be new and interesting
My future and the future of the planet
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe out at a potluck with some friends or some other social gathering. Maybe a few friends are over for dinner. Maybe at home and content by myself by the wood stove, working on a project or just going to bed early because I am getting up early for something or other.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
It seems like we have some shared interests and values
Outside time is way more important and almost always better than screen time
Adventures and risk-taking and rule-breaking are good... within reason...
Food is important and meaningful
You have something clever or interesting to say that demonstrates you read my profile thoroughly.