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39 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 31–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:16am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Farsi (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
According to this website, 1387 people like me... and I don't have a date. Explain please? Stop "liking" and start writing, smart men!

I've traveled, moved countries, changed professions, done pretty much what and as I wanted and the only thing missing right now is a sweet and confident man to walk the journey with. I know I'm not looking to jump into a "serious" relationship, and I also know I have no interest in casual stories.

What I'd really like is to find a man who makes me curious and finds me special and we start hanging out and sweetly and simply getting to know each other.

Hello, you, who have understood one or two things about life and shows up whole to meet and play =)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living it the best I can, being patient with myself and others... growing up! Ha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing what shows up and not sugar coating it.
Cooking gorgeous looking food that tastes as it looks.
Paralel parking (seriously, I thing this is a sexy feature!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know... If I meet you, please tell me what you notice first about me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I want to go to New Orleans soon, IDKW but brass ensembles make me dance more than maracas. Love all types of food but have found myself quite fond of Ethiopian veggie combos and spicy dolmas in the last days... I read mostly non fiction and lately have been wishing to find one of those books you can't put down! So far have been reading Octavia Butler's fiction and have deeply enjoyed it. I love this quote from Kafka "A book is an axe to chop open the frozen sea inside us", dig it? I watch movies, have no cable and when I get fond of a show I better watch it on DVD, waiting a whole week for next episode seems a complete waste. I'm a voracious watcher of The Killing, House of Cards and The Wire.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm gonna sound like your average guy here: air, water, sleep, sun on my skin, love and the Pacific Ocean.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How grateful I feel for what I have, what I do and all those who accompany me.

The power of the young ones and how we can protect them and help them fight their battles

How we miss on each other based on our multiple and ever growing bias! This video made me think deeply on what I've missed, watch it if you feel like, it's only 2 min. long, the original video was already claimed by the film society but this works as well
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying food and people around Oakland or being a hermit after a long week, cooking a nice dinner and sipping on a drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm willing to admit I don't share private stuff online ;)
You should message me if
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If you like.

If you have lived and realized there are few important things in life and all the rest. If you respect women and like being respected. If you are not looking for someone perfect and you don't think you are perfect either.

I'm planning on meeting potential dates rather than reading and writing whole books about ourselves. Coffee, walks and drinks invitations are encouraged!

I apologize if you write me and I don't write back. There's probably nothing personal. If I read a message and a profile and don't find the grounds for a connection, I won't reply.

PS> If you are co-parenting or a single parent please don't make assumptions like I won't be interested in you because I'm not a parent. I can think all by myself, you don't have to do that for me! =)