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hsoj83

26 / M / straight / Single

Chesapeake, Virginia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Languages
English

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I am adventurous, polite, and thoughtful.

My Self-Summary

I married young and things obviously didn't work out. I learned from the situation and moved on. I am a divorced father of 1, a 7 year old girl who means the world to me. I have custody of her most of the week which limits my availability. I am a person that will speak my mind but will do it in the politest way possible. I would like to meet someone who likes to be outdoors. I want to meet someone who is fun, energetic, and likes kids. I would like to meet someone who is mature and has a direction in thier life.

I have manors and morals. I say yes sir/ma'am and no sir/ma'am all of the time. I open doors for people and treat others the way I wish to be treated.

I am a believer in Karma and the theory of "What goes around, comes around".

Apparantly this needs to be said as well since it is stated in profiles over and over: I am not into playing games, I am not looking for a one night stand, and I am not a party guy looking for a good time.

It's ironic that all of the profiles sound the same yet we are all still looking.

I enjoy camping, spending time in the mountains, and traveling. I have recently started to take up photography as well but I'm not very good at it yet. I also help coach a Co-ed soccer team of 5 and 6 year olds and girls softball. I enjoy every minute of it.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a design consulatant and work for a company in Hampton, Va. I am satisfied with were I am in my career right now and I hope to be able to continue enjoying it.

I’m really good at

I am good at racing, most sports, and I think that I am a decent cook.

The first things people usually notice about me

The one thing that I get the most compliments on is my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I have been reading a book about finance and how to plan for the future. However I am going back to school and I have a feelling that all reading for enjoyment will be put to a halt.

I enjoy watching just about all movies. The only movies that I don't find very interesting are horror movies, but I would be willing to try them out again if you think you could convince me otherwise.

The six things I could never do without

1. My daughter
2. Family
3. Friends
4. A garage
5. A comfortable chair
6. The outdoors

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I spend a lot of time thinking about where it is that I want my career to be in 5 years. I also spend time thinking about where it is that I would like to end up. (location wise) I have lived in some part of Virginia all of my life and I have often wondered what it would be like to move to some other part of the country just to experience something new.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am somewhat embarassed to try online dating.

You should message me if

You should message me if my profile has peaked your interest, I have messaged you or if you would just like to go hang out sometime.