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29 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:12pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly other
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I’ve been alive now for 29 years. I’ve basically been living my WHOLE life. I’ve suffered my bumps, bruises and hematomas, but I’ve picked up a thing or two about how to live my life. For example, did you know that eating Indian food is great at first, but then punches me from the INSIDE throughout the day? Wow! That's algebraic!

Being a teacher presents some very interesting and unique challenges. Sleeping in class is much harder to get away with these days. Cutting class is also- apparently- “inappropriate.” I mean what the…that’s… ugggh. “The man,” right ladies? Strangely though, these kids are cool. I don’t know if “cool” is still cool. I tried to use “dope” once, and I was laughed out of my own classroom. Tip to all of you educators out there: extra credit makes “dope” cool, or uhh, “dope” dope…damnit.

Studying for my master’s program is interesting. I feel like everyone is just full of themselves, trying to prove to everyone else just how smart they are. What a waste of time! I’m clearly the smartest one there! Still, I am endlessly fascinated by Communication Studies. It’s changed my life. I find it exciting to know that we make our own social worlds together and the way that we communicate DOES matter. We all have the ability to be a communicative artisan in some way. With language we can do magic!

As a first generation Mexican American man, I have learned how to prepare such dishes as chiles rellenos, enchiladas, quesadillas, and frijoles de lata. That should spice up THIS deal for you ladies. I’m not only a beast in the head; I’m a freak in the kitchen. Let’s just say it’s going get a little messy in there…so please have a mop handy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing up, I hated school. I hated all that school meant to me. It meant spending whole days in a state of confusion. It meant dealing with bullies. It meant being a weird kid. Every day from 8:00am-3:00 pm school was an exercise in awkward, ESL, futility. I remember learning how to write in English. In the 2nd grade, for an assignment, I wrote about finally getting cable at home. I spelled cable as “C-a-b-o-l.” They told me to sound it out, so I did, and I was still wrong. You see, I was supposed to sound it out in English not Spanish. I mean, OF COURSE!

However difficult and awkward school was, it was not futile after all. After years of awkward self-doubt, I’ve grown confident in myself and my abilities. I thank my education and all of those teachers and professors who helped me along the way. I teach now because I believe that education can bring others to life. Education is empowering and I would like to be the same kind of guide for others that my professors were for me.

I want to tell stories one day. Through photography and prose, I want to tell the stories enmeshed in American culture that broadens what it means to be American.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting on some kind of accent
Karaoke without a single shot
Being an attention hoarder
The first things people usually notice about me
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my inner ear infection
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Star Trek
The IT Crowd
Peep Show
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My books
My point and shoot
My dogs
Good people on this planet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Making connections with others through teaching and learning.
Race and oppression and how it affects many young children and adults alike.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a glass of wine after a long day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've burnt myself twice making a sandwich. I even got a scar! That ought to teach me to make sandwiches. Not that it taught me to make them well.
You should message me if
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You have an insightful and critical eye on the world around us. You are keenly aware of issues of race, class, gender and sexual orientation, and realize that we've got a long road ahead of us all.
Even though things may seem bleak sometimes.
Even though at some points you and I are intensely aware of the our gender, race, class, and sexual orientation when by all accounts it should not matter.
Even then, you still look to the future with hope, and optimism; that for the children and grandchildren of this world things will be better, though it's still likely that they will have to continue the struggle.

If you'd like to have a chat over coffee, or maybe over wine.

Si contemplas la vida, felicida, y tu lugar en el mundo.

What can go wrong?