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44 M Boston, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:55am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Straightforward, sincere, creative, friendly, lovable guy. Optimistic and determined, in due course, to find a meaningful, long lasting, monogamous, romantic connection; enjoying every step along this windy path!
What I’m doing with my life
I live in the South End and have a small architecture office down the street from my place. I enjoy living in the city and all that comes with it; eating out and socializing with friends, running along the Charles, theater, concerts etc. I also spend a fair amount of time on the outer cape (Truro, Wellfleet, Provincetown). I'm a water bug, love swimming, sailing, boating, fishing, beach and have real appreciation for the great outdoors. I love the carnivalesque qualities (more as an observer than a participant) of Provincetown. It's a beautiful place with an incredible amount of interesting stuff going on, all packed into this little historic town perched on the very tip of Cape Cod. Magic!
I’m really good at
Quite handy/mechanical, spatial and observant. Decent cook and kisser :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not an avid reader, but do always have a book going. Enjoy NYT, New Yorker and Globe. Love seeing movies at the Kendall, enjoy comedy, Brit flicks, documentaries, not so into sci-fi or action, but not above taking in a summer blockbuster. TV: Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Meet the Press, Greater Boston, Road Show, cooking shows. I still enjoy Sienfeld, now and again. Music: Radeohead, Coldplay, pop hits, classical, jazz, folk (dash of lesbian in me). Food: love breakfast (morning person), eating out (high and low). There are very few foods that I will not eat; love seafood, meat, summer foods (fresh tomatoes, corn, fresh stripa'. Grill it all.) Like eating healthy and indulging in sweets from time to time.
The six things I could never do without
NPR (, I should give them some $)
NYT (OpEd and sunday style esp.)
Swimming in the ocean/bay/lake
Fresh summer vegetables
The great outdoors
friends/family/boys (men really)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
balancing the joys of life (important!) with work(also joyful, mostly) and my ambitions
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving to the Cape, or out with friends having dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Blank...don't have many private things,
'cept my privates of course :-)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are single
are willing to meet for a beer or coffee
are fun, grounded and sensible
are comfortable with who you are
You really like my profile!